mmmmm chocolate

This blog has relocated

2009-01-19T21:40:00.002+13:00

A new year, and a new focus on weight loss and feeling healthier and fitter - I have started a new. For those interested in looking - the address is:

http://www.diaryofawobblywoman.blogspot.com/

Cheers :)

Im Back.....after a year or so

2008-12-19T08:24:00.002+13:00

Things just got away from me this year - and blogging took a back seat. We'll see if I can become more regular at making entries...no promises.

Christmas is almost here, I go home to Dunedin on Sunday (Anthony follows on Wednesday...he is still working..he he) to spend Christmas with my little family. It has been three years since I last had Christmas in Dunedin (when I was full of glandular fever), and this will be the first for Anthony and I together spending it with the Savages. I generally always like going home - Mum and Dad live on the peninsula, its quiet, a lot more chilled out than Wellington and I get to see family and friends that have known me most of my life!

This time - my best friend Frances is now 3.5 months pregnant and hopefully is feeling better than when I last talked to her - bad morning sickness.

Lets hope the weather comes to the party!

Anyway - I found this on the net and thought it would be cool to share - How to achieve some happiness, or more happiness if you are already cheery!

10 Things Science Says Will Make You Happy

In the last few years, psychologists and researchers have been digging up hard data on a question previously left to philosophers: What makes us happy? The emerging field of positive psychology is bursting with new findings that suggest your actions can have a significant effect on your happiness and satisfaction with life. Here are 10 scientifically proven strategies for getting happy...

1. Savor Everyday Moments Pause now and then to smell a rose or watch children at play. Study participants who took time to “savor” ordinary events that they normally hurried through, or to think back on pleasant moments from their day, “showed significant increases in happiness and reductions in depression,” says psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky.

2. Avoid Comparisons While keeping up with the Joneses is part of American culture, comparing ourselves with others can be damaging to happiness and self-esteem. Instead of comparing ourselves to others, focusing on our own personal achievement leads to greater satisfaction, according to Lyubomirsky.

3. Put Money Low on the List People who put money high on their priority list are more at risk for depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem, according to researchers Tim Kasser and Richard Ryan. Their findings hold true across nations and cultures. “The more we seek satisfactions in material goods, the less we find them there,” Ryan says. “The satisfaction has a short half-life -- it’s very fleeting.” Money-seekers also score lower on tests of vitality and self-actualization.

4. Have Meaningful Goals “People who strive for something significant, whether it’s learning a new craft or raising moral children, are far happier than those who don’t have strong dreams or aspirations,” say Ed Diener and Robert Biswas-Diener. “As humans, we actually require a sense of meaning to thrive.” Harvard’s resident happiness professor, Tal Ben-Shahar, agrees, “Happiness lies at the intersection between pleasure and meaning. Whether at work or at home, the goal is to engage in activities that are both personally significant and enjoyable.”

5. Take Initiative at Work How happy you are at work depends in part on how much initiative you take. Researcher Amy Wrzesniewski says that when we express creativity, help others, suggest improvements, or do additional tasks on the job, we make our work more rewarding and feel more in control.

6. Make Friends, Treasure Family Happier people tend to have good families, friends, and supportive relationships, say Diener and Biswas-Diener. But it’s not enough to be the life of the party if you’re surrounded by shallow acquaintances. “We don’t just need relationships, we need close ones” that involve understanding and caring.

7. Smile Even When You Don’t Feel Like It It sounds simple, but it works. “Happy people…see possibilities, opportunities, and success. When they think of the future, they are optimistic, and when they review the past, they tend to savor the high points,” say Diener and Biswas-Diener. Even if you weren’t born looking at the glass as half-full, with practice, a positive outlook can become a habit.

8. Say Thank You Like You Mean It People who keep gratitude journals on a weekly basis are healthier, more optimistic, and more likely to make progress toward achieving personal goals, according to author Robert Emmons. Research by Martin Seligman, founder of positive psychology, revealed that people who write “gratitude letters” to someone who made a difference in their lives score higher on happiness, and lower on depression -- and the effect lasts for weeks.

9. Get Out and Exercise A Duke University study shows that exercise may be just as effective as drugs in treating depression, without all the side effects and expense. Other research shows that in addition to health benefits, regular exercise offers a sense of accomplishment and opportunity for social interaction, releases feel-good endorphins, and boosts self-esteem.

10. Give It Away, Give It Away Now! Make altruism and giving part of your life, and be purposeful about it. Researcher Stephen Post says helping a neighbor, volunteering, or donating goods and services results in a “helper’s high,” and you get more health benefits than you would from exercise or quitting smoking. Listening to a friend, passing on your skills, celebrating others’ successes, and forgiveness also contribute to happiness, he says. Researcher Elizabeth Dunn found that those who spend money on others reported much greater happiness than those who spend it on themselves.

29 Days to go...

2007-12-28T20:57:00.000+13:00

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Tis the holiday season......and soon it will be the wedding season. Christmas was good around at Joans, fairly low key, the funniest part of the day being when Brad (Anthony's nephew) locked himself in the toilet after snapping the key in the lock. No fights even! Nanna kept to herself, not the most social but was amped to watch the Queens Message. Lots of food and drink.....suffering from a food hangover, and now in my detox phase and have started eating healthy. Amazing how much Ive been craving vegetables!

Today: 29 days to go

So far....

Approximately 66 people have RSVP'd to come to the reception

The hens invite list has been passed on to the bridesmaids

Im now understanding how important the seating plan can be (and glad I'm at the bridal table)

My family is not causing problems, Anthony's has a few.

I have an awesome torselette.

I still have to go for my final dress fitting.

The groom and bestman have their suits sorted.

Still seems there are many things to do, after New Years it's all go.

About time for a blog

2007-10-22T21:24:00.000+13:00

Another slack blogging month.....facebook is less effort I guess.

A great weekend. Housesitted for a night and got freaked out by possums scratching (or something) on the roof - honestly sounded like a party was going on. Funny how that freaked me more than the usual police sirens, drunken youths, boy racers, ocaasional explosion and petrol station sounds. Im not really a rural chick I guess.

We have more baby birds - born on Friday - we had to remove the other slightly older babies as they were picking on the poor blighters. We have a total of 21 birds now. Never used to like birds much, but now realise how much personality they can have. My fave is still Bluebelle - the lazy fat budgie - she has character.

In the last month, things have been busy - holidays came and went. I went down home to Dunners - sorted out wedding stuff, caught up with a few friends and family and then home again. Weather was nice apparently better than Welly.

Once back, not long until back to school - took Ed shopping - quite proud of my efforts, lots of clothes, shoes, even cologne from Kirks. And you always know a good friend when you can act like posh old people in Kirks when having a spot of tea at the Kirks Cafe.

School is back, now into the third week - that time of year when seniors start giving a damn about their exams and expect you to teach them the whole course in a couple of weeks. Busy times. The countdown is on till November 14th, the last day at school for seniors! Steve Rodger started working at UHC this term, teaching Maths. Good to have him back! Hasnt really changed much either, except for the touch of a slight British accent. Also good to have a mate to stir trouble with ;)

Wedding plans are coming along nicely - reception and ceremony pretty much sorted now. Have found some bargains over the weekend! Invites not long off now...weee! More info in our wedding blog. Highlight lately - setting up a wedding register at Briscoes - like a wish list - sooo much fun!

I also finally got my 10% goal star from Weight Watchers.....big grins! To date now Ive lost 18.8kilos. 1.2kilos till my new sketchers - they will be so worth it too! Ive started the hard core part of my diet - lots of protein, cutting out a lot but not all carbs - struggling a little for energy - but the first week is always a detox - cant wait for the energy buzz to hit!

Another day off tomorrow - one of my two days in lieu for the term.....nice! Hopefully its as nicer day as today was.

Babies!

2007-09-24T20:17:00.000+12:00

A long time since blogging....I know.

School holidays! Yay! Ive been hanging out for these for so long now. Im down in my ol' home town for 10 days. A good day to arrive as I left Wellington in a misty raining state. Dunedin while a little chilly on 9 degrees at least was dry.

A blog entry to show the new babies that have arrived into the world over the last couple of months. I totally agree with the baby boom theory.

First off.....Miss Jane Madeline Young, daughter of Andrea and Dave. Born 1st July 2007.

Second.....Miss Chilli Hill, daughter of Andrea and Mike (can't remember her middle name at present) born July 12th 2007.

And third, Miss Zara Billie Smith, daughter of Catherine and Max. Born September 11th 2007.(apparently Osama wasnt as option for baby names)

My trainer Clayton and his wife Christina also had a little girl, Georgia. And my cousin is due in November.

As for me and Anthony, well we have got two baby zebra finches now with feathers on them but still tucked away in the nest. We also bought a baby budgie (Peaches), and two canaries - Scarlet and Buzz. We have farewelled two budgies, Lil' B and Sploge and Kate the zebra finch who died recently.

A little milestone for Cassie

2007-08-23T20:27:00.000+12:00

I finally lost 15kilos. Last Saturday it was 15.9, but went to WW tonight and I put on 900g. A tad gutted to say the least. I love how the ladies there go oh you are doing so well, think of the big picture, it may be that time of the month yadiyadiyah. Doesn't change the fact it is still there. Anyway...just came back from a walk to Waterloo and surrounding areas....next week is another week.

My trainer has given me a challenge to lose 20kilos by September 22nd, a month away. I was confident last week, however it will take a lot of work. Diet and exercise big time!!!!!!!

Hopefully my insomnia period is almost over. I have had a few good nights sleep now. Not wanting to go to the doctor, I went to the pharmacist who gave me REM sleep a herbal supplement with the same stuff in it that turkey has that makes you sleepy....not a wonder drug but has helped. A reliever at school also gave me a list of tips that helped him when he had it. Stress not so bad this week, wedding stuff a bit more planned and guest list basically finalised now...thank God.

Not a lot else has been happening really. Saw Die Hard 4 in gold class - so worth it! Lazyboys with electric recliner buttons, push buttons for service, all you can have soft drinks and popcorn and lots of space! Awesome experience. Movie was cool too. Lots of action, a bit a story and Bruce Willis as you expect it. Yippy Kai Yay MotherF***ers!

Also saw Knocked Up.....funny too.

The zebra finch breeding programme is coming along. All three females have made nests (that includes Kate and Ange) - now waiting for eggs.

All friends with babies are doing well - Andreas baby does wicked farts ;) even with a slight smile. Catherine Smith is now due in a couple of weeks and is glowing. Yay for babies....all girls too.

A beatiful day today - even brought out the 3/4 pants - I need a tan on my legs badly!

Kate - keen for a catch up? Havent seen you for agggggeeeesssss!!!!

That is all - Hope all is well with one and all.

A boy's weekend

2007-08-13T20:58:00.000+12:00

I hung out with the boys this weekend....it was fun.

Friday after finally getting to the pub after school with the collegues, and Saturday nights......with Ant and Aaron. Joined in with them after they had been drinking for a few hours, but was sooo much fun. Wrestling, karate kid impersonations, dolls houses raining with beer, more boys wrestling.....and general gutter talk. I still am such a tomboy.

Sunday, caught up with Ed, which must do more often. Had afternoon tea at the Ballroom in Newtown, bringing back memories of when I lived in Newtown. Saw many pics of Europe including - Turkey, Italy and others from his Wellington College trip. Im jealous. Finally saw casa de Ed and Ryan plus their more precocious flatmate who I yet to meet. A bit flasher than ol' Oak Grove but still no sound proofing, Ryan will attest to that. Ed has the gimp room with an internal window to the lounge (weird). Ryan and I suggested that he could put on shows like they do in Amsterdam for money...he didnt quite see the funny side ;) Ed and I also propose a nice dinner out possibly this weekend...whos keen?

On other things.....Sooty and Sweep our zebra finches have set up nest and may be breeding soon.....very exciting. They look very cute in their nest too. We may have to buy some more males for Kate and Ange our other two zebra finches. Still waiting for the budgies to get it on.

Had the day off today, have really bad insomnia at mo, felt a bit crap so decided in best interests to stay at home. While still no sleep, I feel a little more relaxed. Made a fantastic guiness stew for dinner...mmmm mmmm.

Wedding plans continue. Stressing a little bit....got to get onto invites etc. I see why people have wedding planners. The guest list is a worry, its getting bigger and bigger. How do you not offend people? Everything costs money aswell, and the mention of a wedding makes it more expensive. Argghhh!

Anyway......make sure if you dont know already the wedding is on January 26th at 3pm...SAVE THE DATE :)

Bits and bobs

2007-08-07T21:52:00.001+12:00

A wee while since blogging. A couple of weeks ago, I caught the facebook virus and have been exploring that. Found heaps of friends from high school and uni.... and many others I had no idea about. Its cool, and way easier to upload heaps of photos with labels. Anyway...look me up and add me as a friend if you havent already :)

Week 4 at school. Feels like it has gone fast. Work busy as always. The extra responsibilities finally got me last Friday...I broke down in tears (as many of us do from time to time). It did help, and realise I shouldn't be too proud to ask for help, and say "No" more often. On Saturday I actually felt better, went to WW - lost 1.2kilos (totalling 13.4kilos...slow and steady I guess), and had a great workout. The days are getting longer, and I finally have some motivation back to exercise more. I think Ive come out of hibernation.

The weekend was good. Had Ed's 30th on Saturday night at Tulsi. It was like a reunion of sorts with friends and family there from all throughout Ed's life. A highlight was his best buddies Dunc and Jerry singing him Desperado. Also, Ryans stash of pink protein shake, and everyone in agreement over our present to Ed of a Mr Grumpy book (I also got him Mr Cool too).

Tonight, went to License to Wed. Seemed fitting considering our circumstances. A good laugh, and Robin Williams always funny. A for the guys, Anthony pointed out that Mandy Moore does not wear a bra the whole movie.....I guess something for everyone :)

Parent/teacher interviews on Thursday night - bleh. Over it already. At least no report writing for a little while.

Enjoy the rest of the week!

Off to the Mountain we go!

2007-07-29T19:52:00.000+12:00

Just back from an awesome weekend in Ohakune/Mount Ruapehu with UHC teachers and friends. As per Sam's request, here is a pictorial highlight reel - biggest highlight - sleding on plastic sheets - what a rush...weeee :)Note: Just pictures for now - will add comments later - me tired now.

Farewell Ken and Holly

2007-07-15T20:20:00.000+12:00

The final drinks for Ken and Holly before they ventured overseas.....safe travels!!!

Moments from the night.....

Fish and Ken

After a farewell smooch it was felt that Ant and Ken should act a little more manly ;)

(smooch pic censored!)

However Fish and Sam can smooch away :)

Not so sure on this one

Ken tries to reassure Fish it will be alright without him (although netball wont be the same)

Me and Ken, the only posse members in attendance...Ed was in Europe but where was Judge? Ken and I came to the conclusion the posse is in recession now. It formerly served its purpose as a lonely hearts piss up group ....for which we are grateful for :) I will remember the apron and vacuum challenge well!

Canadian Lauren (who is just lovely) shares her whistling straw party trick....hilarious!

Canadian Lauren and Home stay mum Fish

Strike a pose Fish!

A New Leaf

2007-07-10T20:29:00.001+12:00

A lovely bright surprise from Ant on such a dull day.....I am very lucky :)

Time for a change....sick of the blonde look, needed something warmer for Winter.

Also have kickstarted the weight loss regime again. I actually managed to lose 300g at WW today (total now 12.6kilos), but have been in a slack mode lately, and needed to refocus. With the help of Clayton the ever faithful personal trainer, a new tactic of planning everything in a form of a weekly planner has been done. I have to stop being such a "yes" person, and help people when it is convienient for me, not them. This is to be done by setting times for everything - work, ww, me time, exercise, study, school, other commitments etc. and sticking to them (especially exercise and eating properly!!!) I have found since gaining Andrea's Bio TIC work has become my life, and while I do enjoy my job - it is not on the top of my list of importance. I am going to try really hard to do this. When school starts back - that will be the test!

Harry Potter starts tomorrow...weeeee!!!

Babies!

2007-07-08T20:02:00.000+12:00

What a week for the future generation.

Sunday July 1st

- Andrea and Dave had a baby girl (well Andrea delivered it) named Jane Madeline, weighing 7.1 pounds. All are well. Dave has melted, and apparently the labour was pretty quick and came out no hassles. She had a very good pregnancy.

Friday July 6th

- Not only was it my brother Scott's birthday (Happy 27th Birthday Scooter), but it was Ant's God daughter, Caitlyn's 2nd birthday as well. It was celebrated with a wee party on Saturday with many toddlers. Her little sister Milly has grown so much, and both are cute. The cow cake was tops - Well done Fran on making it. My favourite toddler was the kid playing in the gravel. Her mum was quite excited about a birthday party and finally being able to put her in dress. She was glad when she saw her in the gravel covered in dirt....ahhh to be that young again....not a care in the world.

Sunday July 8th

- Catherine Smith who worked at UHC had her baby shower. Unfortunately, due to last minute events, I was unable to go. With such a great sunny day, Im sure it would have been great.

This week should say hello to another wee one...more on that when news comes to hand :)

What a beautiful day

2007-07-08T19:54:00.000+12:00

Finally the rain ended. A frosty morning lead to a gorgeous day as seen from these few pictures on the way back from the coast. Why would you live anywhere else?

Breakfast at Tiffany's

2007-07-02T00:57:00.000+12:00

What a lovely film. Kate and I went to the Lighthouse in the most miserable of Sunday nights and watched it on the big screen. Movies are somewhat different now. Back then, you were on the out if you didn't smoke....everyone was lighting up. It was cool to get horrendously drunk - and no hangovers. The sound was piercing at times - that has improved in modern times. Great outfits, stunning hairdo's, and how beautiful (if not tiny) was Audrey Hepburn. It was nice to slip back into the past for a classic love story. Cool cat too :) Bring on more classic films to the big screen!

Autobots....roll out!

2007-06-28T22:40:00.001+12:00

Just arrived home from Transformers. Awesome movie!!!! Regardless if you are a fan/geek from way back, there is something for everyone. A bit of romance, a hot girl, awesome cars, goodies, badies, lots of destruction, battles, and a hot army guy, plus even a pretty good story line. Classic Optimus Prime and Megatron, Starscream, Jazz, Bumblebee, Rachet, etc. Im just buzzing, will need to see it again. Highly recommend!!!! Decided I want a car like Bumblebee a guardian - how handy would that be :)

Last day of school tomorrow.....weeeee!!!!

The countdown continues...

2007-06-24T21:11:00.000+12:00

Ahhhh the last Sunday before holidays....woo hoo.

Another busy week, I will be glad when life is a little less hectic.

My last week of my student teacher. We had a blow out on Monday where an arguement was had over many issues that Im past so dont want to go into. However apparently later on in the day, another Science teacher found her crying over it. I made her cry. I felt a little bad, however when someone disrespects you in many ways, it would also be stupid for me to stand there and take it, so I will fight back. She is also Andrea's replacement next term. My HOD informed me my job had been made harder by her appointment...yippee.

Anyway onto happier things, went on a field trip to the Science Roadshow, and my geek self loved it. Great explosions!!! I also got to go to the zoo on a teachers course. Since becoming a teacher I am yet to pay to go to the zoo. The chimps have got a new enclosure, lots of construction going on and even a new amphitheatre as well for educational shows. Looking at chimp and baboon behaviour has so many parallels to school children. I wonder if I threw them food if they would act the same way. A lecture was given in the afternoon by a scientist from Vic who has studied the size of primates testicles compared to its sexual behaviour...what a topic! Very interesting. Quite the party conversation. Two things picked up. Fruit eating possums have incredibly huge sperm compared to humans. Rhinos sperm is smaller than ours. And chimpanzees are swingers so have very large testicles.

Anyway, moving on. Second session of marriage classes came and went. This week it was effective communication, and interpreting what people really say. Now anyone that has had to do any professional development on working with people in their jobs will have taken the same class. Tomorrow is the legal and the financial information. I figure this should be one of the more interesting topics. Still they have quality biscuits at break time.

Weight Watchers - came back with a weight loss this week. Lost 2.2kilos, so made up for the 1.2 kilos I had gained last week. Felt much happier. Have been more active this week. It helps. 12.5 kilos now.

Highlight of the week was Ken and Holly's farewell at Theos Greek Traverna in Mount Victoria. Lots of people, a set menu of a variety of yummy Greek food, some interesting Greek wine that may have aged a little too long. Although, people said it did the job. After one sip, it made my jaw tingle. Plate throwing, greek music and dancing. Kate and I sanf many an op pa! finger danced and had a go at the real thing. It was noted by Fish and Ant that we suffer in both trying to lead...he he. good times. This was followed by drinks at the Cambridge, more singing, and chatting. Ant and I got a room at the Cambridge. How good was it to just go upstairs at the end of the night. Good rooms, highly recommend. In the morning we came downstairs to brunch which starts at a basic $2 for eggs on toast and you add to it what you want. Very good as you get exactly what you want, and for me no stupid tomato.

The rest of yesterday involved shopping at the mall, nanna napping, and once again getting on the booze with Ant, Aaron and others. I have come to like Ant's brother Steve more as time goes on. They get along a lot better now, and he is pretty funny at times with a dry Kitt humour.

Today, had a two hour conversation with ma and pa. My cousin is pregnant and found out she is having a boy. Excting! I made a guest appearance on the indoor netball court for Kates team. An appalling first quarter where my arms just would not catch the ball, to improving enough to score 3 goals. It was fun and reminded me how much fun it is to play. Thanks Kate!

Watched Dreamgirls this arvo. A lot singing. Was alright, but think I had to be in a different mood to enjoy it more.

Saw an ad for audtions for a quiz show "Are you smarter than a 10 year old?" on tv. Will investigate to see if they have Wellington audtions this time.

Hmmmm thats enough ranting, have a good week. 5 more days!!!

The Good and the Bad

2007-06-17T21:14:00.000+12:00

To sum up the week at school.......

Reports still on the go, not far from almost over I hope. Just completed the Form Teacher ones...yay! The incompetant student teacher got the maternity position at school starting next term. SOS. Its going to be a long six months. I have informed Andrea if she feels the urge to return early from Maternity Leave, I will not argue. Even the HOD said that my job has just been made that much harder...great! Guess thats what happens when there is a lack of applicants. I do keep thinking of the extra management unit and hopefully the money that follows.

Ant experienced Home Ec teaching on Friday with his ANZ volunteer day. From what I can tell he enjoyed it. The Home Ec ladies loved him and have booked him in again next year. The kids revelled in the fact that they had met my fiance and that he told them I was bossy at home.....hmmmm. I think he appreciated the life of a teacher (Well I hope so). A lovely drinks/nibbles session at Anneleises, and then a few drinks at Aaron and Frans.

Saturday rolled around and after gaining 1.2kilos at Weight Watchers this week, I went to the Personal Trainer and enjoyed a good boxing session. Also great stress relief.

From there it was off to Wedding Belles, to look at wedding dresses. Yay....have decided on the hiring option as found the most lovely dress. All sorted in two hours. I felt like a princess. I have finally got quite excited about this whole wedding business. Still over 6 months to go. Mainly small details now to sort.

And then, when all is well, I backed into a gas main and broke the pipe letting a lot of gas into the atmosphere. Not at my house however, at a friends neighbours...never saw the gas box on the ground in the driveway. Actually thought I had burst the tyre. Anyway, the fire brigade was called to the rescue. Not one but five showed up (obviously a busy day) and plugged up the hole with a broom handle. The gas man was next to arrive, and informed me that it was a good thing I had insurance as it was going to cost a lot of money as contractors had to dig up the ground to fix the pipe...and to top it off, there was an open home at the house the next day. The fireman asked me if I knew how to back, and the gas man wanted me to inform him when I was leaving so he could clear the driveway. Suppose when I do something I dont do it half arsed. Rang the insurance company, all should be covered...thank God.

Things improved from there and today has been a lot more low key. Got another budgie, this one called Oprah. Ant named it after the Colour Purple (guess the colour). One of the other budgies got out and swam straight into the water, resulting in him looking like this.

A throw back to the 80's I think. This one is Sploge.

Aquajogging wraps up the weekend, which was lovely. Lets hope this week is slightly quieter. Only two more weeks to go!

Marriage Preparation - Lesson 1

2007-06-11T21:30:00.000+12:00

A few weeks since my last blog entry. Been busy, lots of things going on.

I have finished my uni paper for the semester - had my exam on Saturday. I have done a lot of exams in my time - I still dislike them. This one was six essays in 2 hours - I wrote a lot. I just hope that there is some quality in the answers. Next semester the paper is Sports Injuries.

Reports due tomorrow, have got them done. Amazing how productive you can be under pressure - now to the Form Teacher reports.

A lovely catch up dinner was had by the posse and friends on Friday night at Eastern Sunrise, followed by desert at Espressoholic...mmmm mmmm. A great catch up and finally a chance to meet Ed's Belle Donna. I swear she looks like an old friend, Rebecca Henry who used to flat with Nicky.

Weight Watchers - still going. Have lost 11.5kilos to date,although the past weekend wasnt the best in food choices. Dee also gave me a site http://sparkpeople.com where you can track your fitness, food, and weight changes. A lot like weight watchers, but the site is free :) This week is time to refocus, and get back on the exercise wagon. All the study has thrown me out of routine.

Student teacher is still a bit of a nightmare. Continues to think she knows more than me. Kids dont like her, and even my lovely accelerant kids are throwing darts in the classroom. Less than two weeks to go, and I keep thinking of the money.

Saw Shrek 3 last night - good movie. A light hearted 90minute feature. I swear Ant is still Shrek, and me well I thought Fiona, but then Ant said I could be as annoying at Donkey...he he.

And finally, marriage preparation classes started tonight. 11 couples were there, many more than I thought. Had the usual introductions where we had to introduce a fellow couple, how they met, when they were getting married, and how their wedding plans were going. So the beginning of the year at school.

Tonight involved filling out a FOCCUS (Facilitating Open Couple Communication Understanding and Study) quiz of 189 multi-choice questions in which you answered:

A -Agree D - Disagree U - Uncertain

The answers will be tabulated by facilitators who will talk to us about how we answered the questions. What we agreed on and what we may need to communicate further on. Quite frankly I was just excited to be doing a quiz...yes I am a geek, but you have to love quizzes.

Examples from the quiz included:

Drinking alcohol can cause my future spouse to act inappropriately

My future in-laws have accepted me

Cohabiting with my future spouse makes me think he will expect sex on demand

We are in agreement about the husband and wife roles each of us expects of the other in our marriage relationship.

There are qualities about my future spouse that I do not respect.

We have discussed the ways our families solved problems and how this may affect our problem solving.

We disagree with each other over some teachings of the church.

My future spouse and I have agreed that we are open about having children.

I am concerned that in-laws may interfere in our marriage relationship.

My future spouse and I can talk about our sexual fears, hopes and preferences.

We are in agreement about how we will make financial decisions between us.

I sometimes feel that this may not be the right person for me to marry.

My future spouse and I agree that our marriage commitment means we intend to pledge love under all circumstances.

These are all examples from the quiz...189 questions are just too many to list. The tea and biscuits were a nice bonus to get us through the night.

The week in a blur!

2007-05-27T20:41:00.000+12:00

Ant's back...yay!

A week that went by in a blur. Was surprisingly busy - open night at school, Laura for dinner, Aaron hosted me for dinner (yummy quiche), Mums birthday, feeding Steves cat, getting a student teacher who thinks she knows better than me (we'll see about that....wait till she has to teach my human biology class ;) )the gym, putting on 400g at WW, pub and a random trip to the movies with teachers to see Pirates 3 (a three hour movie that should be 2, but better than the second one), an awesome teachers cocktail party (which some people will remember more than others - karaoke and dancing was all on along with some fantastic cocktails and a shot of absenthe (forgot how much it burns...).

Today brought a catch up with Ed, Ange, Kate, and Anges flattie at Parade Cafe. Yum! Plus it was a pearler of a day. Then off to the airport. The plane was delayed, but at the airport people watching is great. As seen in the movie Dogma, the airport shows the extremes of emotions. Crying, joy, oh f*** Im running late , where the hell are the people who are supposed to meet me, and the thank God Im home. The Kitts expressed this one especially. Good to have everyone back safe and sound, with lots of pics, movie clips, cool pressies and lots of stories to tell.

My best friend Frances is staying for a few days while up for a wedding, so that should be fun :) Always good to catch up with her. Tomorrow is open day so no teaching...well my normal classes.....get impress the Year 8's. This week is also assessment week, No seniors!

To end this entry...bring on Transformers and Shrek the Third, saw the previews and can't wait!!!

Home Alone

2007-05-21T23:54:00.000+12:00

Where did the last few days go??

When all seems to be settled, and life is just cruising along...bam!

Very early Friday morning, the phone rang and on the other end was the news that Ant's Uncle John had died suddenly in Thailand. He was 53.

Shock was the word. Death brings many emotions. I think I have seen most of them now. For myself, I had never met him so over the last few days, my role I guess has been support person, and help out when needed. In these sort of situations, I find you don't ponder doing things, you just do them. Organising, cooking, transporting, researching, looking after kids (got them into puzzle making and teaching magic), and listening have made me not feel useless, and hopefully made things run a little smoother.

The family have gone to Thailand for a week to go to the funeral, a traditional Thai buddhist funeral (his wife was Thai), sort out all those things you need to sort, and most of all hopefully say their own goodbyes, and get the closure they need. I wish them all well.

For one of the first times since meeting Ant, Im home alone for the week. Anyone who has visited the house will know silence is not usually one of the words that describes it. Its kind of erie. Even the birds have been quiet. I can't sleep, and thats frustrating as hell.

On the plus side, I got a student teacher today who seems very on to it, so from first impressions it should be a pleasant five weeks. Open evening at school tomorrow night, my little accelerants are so keen as the science helpers - makes me proud. Its nice to see kids excited about school.

An update on the girl with cuts, the counsellor saw her after I forwarded her name. He said she would be alright, and without disclosing details, there was little to worry about after he talked to her. Reassuring.

Righto, off to attempt sleep again.

From the foggy mind....

2007-05-17T19:13:00.000+12:00

Well well well...three holes in the ground, as my Dad used to say(probably still does).

This week, Ive have the flu.....I hate being sick. I get utterly miserable and frustrated I can't do what I want. I had a couple of days off, back at school now and just sniffy and head in a constant state of fog. I hate not being on top of my game and don't like not looking organised. It's the perfectionist in me I guess.

Anyway, I did it I made it to the 10 kilo mark (even better the 10.9 kilo mark) Im stoked!!! It's reward time, so I got to buy the new Linkin Park CD (awesome), and got my hair done (long overdue, and feel so much better). Key is keep going, and keep exercising. I got a star for my efforts at the meeting - even big kids like stars :)

I finally finished my nutrition essay. I feel now I could design an eating plan for someone given the time to do it, particularly if training for a particular sport. My essay was on nutrition for competitive swimming - lots of things learnt. Less than a month to my exam now...arrgghhh!

On to school. The kids missed me when I was sick. Apparently the reliever was incompetant and didn't make them do anything, so not much was done, boo! Based on that, being a crap reliever is damn easy money!

On a more disturbing note, today in formtime I learnt one of my students cuts herself. When I asked her if she did it, she fully admited she did. She said she was depressed. She could be generalised as being an EMO (as the students describe her behaviour and dress sense) however it is quite disturbing for me. I left a note for the counsellor about her - I am at a loss what to do. Later on in the day I noticed another student with cuts marks on her arms. This one claimed she "fell over" straight line cuts do not come from falling over. She also had drawn a long knife mark in her wrist with blood coming out. This one also prides herself on showing me her artwork of corpses with blood everywhere with all sorts of ways of dying - these pictures are detailed and gruesome. She told me today its a way of getting her moods out. Im at loss what to do, and really can I do anything?

The wikipedia definition of EMO is the following: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emo_(slang)

For all the phases and crazes there are for kids to follow, this one is one I hope goes out of fashion soon!

Wedding shows, the Priest amongst other things

2007-05-10T19:36:00.000+12:00

This past week has been very busy. Productive though I think.

First up, last weekend. Ant, Kate and I went to the Wellington Wedding Show. Honestly I enjoyed the Wallaceville show more. Being smaller had its benefits, as could talk to people for longer. The Stokes Valley Bridal Attire people were once again lovely, and I can feel a visit to them to try on dresses coming up on the horizon. A bit of a fun few hours during what looks to be another dark dreary Winter. Assistance, opinions very welcome so if you keen to join :)

Highlights from the show were ideas for cakes (I liked the red one but with flowers going down the side) and a nice name tag idea for the tables. Ant found a friend who can be our DJ hopefully at a discounted rate.....weeee.

Still stuck on flowers, I just don't know what I like or want. I'm no gardener, just want them simple and vibrant. Jane and Andrea have given me a few ideas, and what their budgets were so helps a bit.

Ant and I saw Father Lyons once again for our monthly visit. This months theme was how love came from God. Father didn't worry about Ant after he proudly says he has read the Bible a couple of times (I have no comment for that), and focussed on me and tried to convince me that although I think there is some force out there, I should put it into a human form to believe in God and his love. Although, what I liked was that he did side with evolution now playing a part in how we became who we are in his own belief. I continue with my force/evolution/reincarnation and other bits from many religions that I like. Next month we start our weekly course in getting married run by the church - I trust there will be stories to be told.

Fish hosted a lovely afternoon tea for her birthday on Sunday. Good to see a few people I hadn't seen in a while and even meet a couple. Ken and Holly announced their 8 week countdown until they go overseas. Time flies. Thanks for the lovely afternoon Fish!

I have got back into the pool!! At last. Paired up with the now very pregnant Andrea, we've started aquajogging, and I have felt burn from it the day later. Its great exercise. In the pool with a friend, exercising for an hour and gossiping the whole time. Awesome!

The time of term has arrived where marking has taken up a lot of my evenings, organising a school science competition, assessing, going to watch school production, taking a badminton team, and writing my essay for University. Always something on at the moment. Most people I talk to seem to be in similar situations. I get a student teacher in a couple of weeks.....if she is good....awesome. If not, that will be more work. I hope for the former. I've only had one really bad student teacher, so out of about 6 that aint too bad.

Have ventured into the Vic library this week for research for my nutrition essay. While getting my information, I observed the following in the library:
- Beards seem to be the in thing for male students.
- Students are very young, or maybe Im very old.
- In my work clothes, I stick out compared to the usual jeans, t shirts and hoodies which
surrounded me.
- Student librarians are power hungry. Luckily I got the only nice helpful one.
- Its warm, so warm.
- Big groups of people - not much study going on.
- Nearly every student I saw studying by themselves were listening to IPods or MP3 players.
- The life of a student still seems very carefree.

Weightwatchers update - lost 1.9kilos this week. Now at 9.5 kilos total. 10 is the next magic number. I've actually noticed a couple of nice things. A t shirt I put on the other day feels a big bigger, I can fit nicely into a denim skirt I bought a few months ago, increased energy and sleeping better. All positve.

Tomorrow is Friday....TGIF!

Woo hoo!

2007-05-01T21:10:00.000+12:00

Yay! Holiday weight is gone!! I lost 1.8kilos this week which is 400g more than what I gained. I am content. Total is now 7.6kilos. Awesome :). Below is a tops recipe which has been really successful with all I have cooked for. Its yummy!

Chicken Harira

You will need:

4 large (180g each) chicken thigh fillets – fat removed, chopped (any boneless chicken pieces are fine)
1 large brown onion – chopped
½ tsp ground ginger (nutmeg also worked fine)
½ tsp saffron threads (substitute can be turmeric)
2 x 7cm cinnamon sticks
400g can diced tomatoes (flavoured is optional)
3 cups (750mL) chicken stock (made using stock cubes)
½ - 1 cup basmati rice (depending on how much rice you want in dish)
½ cup red lentils (1 can red kidney beans works well)
400g chickpeas, rinsed, drained
2 cups (300g) frozen broad beans, thawed (outer shell optional)
¼ coarsely chopped fresh coriander leaves
¼ coarsely chopped fresh flat-leaf parsley

1 Heat a large saucepan over medium high heat. Spray with cooking spray. Add half

the chicken. Cook for 5 minutes or until browned. Transfer to a bowl. Repeat with
the remaining chicken.

2 Add onion. Cook, stirring for 5 minutes. Add ginger, saffron, and cinnamon. Cook,
stirring for 1 minute. Add chicken, tomatoes, stock and 1 cup of water. Place in
casserole dish and cook on 180 oC for approx half an hour or until chicken is tender.

3 Add rice, lentils, chickpeas and broad beans. Place back in oven and cook until
liquid is absorbed.

4 Remove cinnamon. Stir in coriander and parsley.

5 Serve.

http://www.foodnetwork.com/food/recipes/recipe/0,1977,FOOD_9936_31534,00.html

A link to non-weight watchers version. Not that dissimilar.

Do try!!!

Quiet times

2007-04-29T20:53:00.000+12:00

A fairly quiet weekend. Winter is on its way. Saturday was filled with grey clouds and rain. Pretty miserable - it feels like its almost hibernation time. How easy life would be to be a bear. Sleep the winter away, although plugging your butt with twigs, leaves, and nuts etc would be less than ideal. Winter is hard for me. Depression generally finds its way in, so it one will need to take preventative strategies so everything stays a-ok.

I had a refocus session with my personal trainer to get me back on track. It was good. Got so many recipes now, I don't know what to do with the them, however Clayton bless him is going to work out what foods are best for me at what time of day. At weight watchers last week, I did find a fault with one thing they said. They said:

"That you shouldn't eat complex carbohydrates after 8pm is a myth."

From my background in taking nutrition papers, and from Clayton - I know that unless you are going to do hard core exercise after 8pm, there is no need to have carbs as you will not burn them. As the day goes on, you need to ease up on the carbs and increase your protein. The increased protein will keep your metabolism buring overnight and also stop one from feeling starved the next morning.

Saturday was fairly uneventful. Caught up on the royal gossip in magazines.

William is now single. Kate Middleton would never had made it to the royal family - for she is a commoner. Her family are what they call new money. Although they have done well for themselves, the success is not inherited. The Queen follows tradition. Diana and Fergie all cames from high society backgrounds hence their acceptance. Royalty is full of heritage and tradition. For now it will not change.

Also from what I have read (yes it is hear say) Kate seemed a bit on the boring side for William. William is still a big party boy, where as she is ready to settle down. Two people at different stages in their lives. I also read the William also has the wandering eye with the ladies - So in my eyes not meant to be.

Harry has a price on his head if he goes to Iraq. Apparently if he sets foot in Iraq, he will return home without his ears. An army spokesperson said Harry will be heavily camoflagued so it will be hard to recognise him. Wait and see I guess.

Back to the weekend. Watched Borat - was alright, however I guess I expected more - wasn't laugh out loud funny. Had drinks at home last night, the usual Aaron showed up and a very hungover little Laura. Good catch up.

Sunday - joined the library in the Hutt. A lot smaller than the one in town, but nice and cosy. Needed books for my sports nutrition essay which they had - the aim is design a diet and strategies for a particular sport. Mine - swimming. See how that goes.

Went aquajogging with a increasingly pregnant Andrea. Was lots of fun, and a great time to gossip at the same time. Looking to get back into the pool more, forgot how much fun it is.

The weekend draws to a close - Not-Kate there is another wedding expo on next Sunday. You keen?

ANZAC Day

2007-04-26T20:02:00.000+12:00

5am - Alarm goes off - time to get up for the dawn service.

I hadn't been to one for a couple of years, possibly to my love of sleep, and usually not waking up until 8am. A brisk but dry morning, Ant and I went to the Lower Hutt service, held at the memorial at the library. The last post sent shivers down my spine as it always seems to. Good to see a variety of ages, and many children and grand children wearing their relations medals. Ange told me of protesters at the Wellington service. Things like that make me angry. The protesters have no idea what the men went through to defend their country, and their service should be celebrated. They only get one day!

On another note, last Saturday was Brad's (future nephew) first soccer game of the season. He played an awesome game and won player of the day. Well done!

Also went to Andrea's baby shower. Was a pleasant affair, and Andrea seems to be growing by the day. Lots of presents, all should be very useful. Good there were no horror stories of birth told, it was all good stories, and not too many cheesy games. The best one was name the baby animal.

DID you know: A baby cockroach is called a nymph?

The rest of ANZAC day was spent having a lovely brunch and catch up with Kate and Ange at Go Bang. Ange has started a list on what to do before she is 30. Im thinking it could be a good idea...what to put in the list???? We also put our voucher money on the payment for our wedding rings, and sorting out my storage unit. Who knew one person could have so much stuff!

Today was back to school - blah. Had parent teacher interviews for Year 10's tonight. Only had 7 interviews. Not a particularly great year group, so was a blessing. Must have been the earliest Ive come home from interviews, YAY! Thank god tomorrow is Friday!

GO THE HIGHLANDERS TOMORROW NIGHT!!!

The Holidays

2007-04-25T22:43:00.000+12:00

The holidays involved much travelling, an engagement party (see our wedding blog) and catch ups. Down to Dunners, Ant and I went on the ferry then in Merlot (my pulsar) and Rusty our mascot to meet and greet the parents and the dog.

On the way......

Saw some seals

We stayed in Kaikoura the night, the next morning it had snowed!

Went to Christchrch for a night

We went to Moeraki Boulders (no one knows how they got there). It was cold, but fun. Lots of great scenary and not a bad cafe.

I was quite chuffed with my seagull shot so added it in.

The dog and my parents loved Ant (the dog even going out for a "smoke" with Ant). While in Dunners, my brother and I treated Ant to an outing at the Bowler, a student pub as he thought he had missed out being by not going to uni. He realised it was a student pub when the bar tender served him a jug and asked if he would like glasses with that...

We also went to the Baldwin Street, the world's steepest street.

Went to a few beaches (with white sand). Ant was amazed by the amount of kelp present.

Saw the pyramids

and some great scenary

Was also a chance to catch up with friends

and go out for dinners (the weight watchers did suffer, gaining 1.4 kilos for the trip) and having fun with Zorro at the casino.

On the way home we went to Waimate's wallaby park, and got to hold a baby one...awww.

We arrived home safe and sound, having a fab time!

A new link...

2007-04-23T20:45:00.000+12:00

Will update this blog soon. On the right hand site is a link to a blog I set up for the wedding. So far it covers the engagement party, and hopefully will be updated as things occur. Mainly for Ma and Pa, Scooter and and anyone interested!! Lots of piccys.

Day one of term 2...where did the holidays go????

Less than two days to go :)

2007-04-04T12:09:00.000+12:00

A fairly good week thus far...no dramas, but man is everyone tired and looking like they need a holiday!

Not-Kate talked about great moments in teaching or moments when you realise maybe this is my calling.

I had parent-teacher interviews last night - fully booked seeing 32 parents of my Year 9 students (I have two classes). All interviews were really positive!! No complaints or anything. I got a range of compliments and many kids/parents said that for them Science this year was awesome! Total warm fuzzies. I have tried hard with the Year 9's this year due to last years being one of the two worst Year 9's I have ever taught. While completely exhausted and not really wanting to talk afterwards - I felt good and realise that I must be doing something right.

Yesterday, I was also referred to talk to a student about bipolar. I have never had to do this before, so very new experience for me. Basically she thought she was going nuts because of her mood swings etc, the fact she was up one moment and down the next. I explained many aspects of the illness to her, saying it may not be that and as I have it, it is merely a chemical imbalance that can affect my moods. Fortunately, I saw her this morning and turns out her hormones are out of whack, producing too much testosterone and not enough oestrogen. It can be fixed. I could see the relief on her face, and she was smiling today. It is nice to see things go right for people :)

No weigh in last night due to interviews, will go on Thursday night. This week has been bad for cravings for bread. I looooovvvve bread!

Kate do you want to donate blood soon? Im due to donate!

Umm that is all, almost lunchtime.

A pinch and a punch for the first of the month

2007-04-01T21:41:00.000+12:00

Yay last week of school, and even better it's only four more days!

The countdown is also on for the engagement party on Saturday. I'm getting very excited about it now, and things seem to be coming together nicely. We recieved another couple of gifts - a big kick-ass 4 burner BBQ from Ant's Mum and Ant' s Nanna gave us her barely used drier when we went up to visit yesterday. Tops!!

The past week dragged. I guess it does that when holidays are close. Teachers and kids are tired, and grumpy. I find at times like these, sometimes it is easier just to avoid those people. A student swore at me during the week, and yet again am still waiting for something to be done about it after informing the appropriate people. I find it frustrating as the one time I made the mistake of swearing at a girl under my breath after she had left the room, I got in trouble instantly. Now to add, Im not one of those teachers who can't handle students. I have not sent any kid to time out this year (haven't needed to as of yet). I do try to rectify the issue first, and this has worked so far this year. I will send them for a good reason, not just because they are annoying me (or less). I guess thats why when something does happen of some seriousness and nothing gets done about it, I get grumpy myself, and have less faith in the leaders of the school. One thing I have noticed more this term, is that apart from the enormous amount of PD (reserving judgement on that), is that us pleb teachers get told off a lot, and recieve a lot of negative feedback from our 'leaders'. I have only heard one compliment recognising the amount of time and effort we put in from one of the A.P's who still teaches. If we don't recieve some positivity, how are we meant to show it to the students? Thanks, that is my rant for now.

My best friend Frances and her partner Shane came up to Wellington for 10 days yesterday, and caught up today. It was awesome. Fran got to meet Anthony, and gave him the big thumbs up, while Anthony said later on he liked Fran, and could see why we were friends. You can always tell when people get along, when they can start hassling each other with smiles on their faces :) Yay! We had lunch at One Red Dog - not the easiest place when you are on Weight watchers but with a salad a one piece of pizza it was all good.

Yesterday we saw Father Lyons again, and passed the Love test (as I saw it). From our comments, he pointed out we were great communicators, saw each other as the person that completes the other, and for people that have not known each other as long as some couples, we had compacted the wisdom and experience that many take years to gather into the year and a bit we have been together. He also liked how we used the word unconditional in respect to trust, honesty etc. Next month, we cover how Love comes from God. Yesterday also saw Ant and I go to visit Nanna up in Foxton. A very good day, and some interesting stories from his Nanna. Also good was the visit to Prenzels, and the Bendon factory - yay for new underwear.

Have a good short week!!!

Kate....I will never doubt you again (well for a while anyway)

2007-03-28T21:05:00.000+12:00

I have now discovered Egyptian cotton sheets with high thread counts, and man are they awesome!!! So smooth and comfy, I can't wait for bedtime :) To be honest, I hadnt thought about quality sheets before, but Bed, Bath and Beyond have a great sale at the moment so couldn't be missed.

With being payday, it was food and drink shopping day for the P-A-R-T-Y! Im getting more excited about it now and buying stuff for it is all good. A big variety of food and a lot in the drinks department. We are up to about 70 people confirmed now....bring it on!!!

On the weight watchers front - I lost 1.7kilos this week. I didn't think I would lose any. At the meeting last night Easter and how to cope was discussed. I've decided Hot Cross Buns aren't worth it (well maybe only one), and if I have an Easter Egg it will be of high quality chocolate as they in general have higher quality chocolate and less saturated fat in them. I also learnt that 2kg of chocolate = 233 points which is for me is about 10 days worth of food. Through this programme I am discovering where my diet has been not so good over the years. Along with my sports nutrition course, I feel very knowledgable in the food area now. I got my first compliment today from someone at work.....weee :)

Only 6 more working days until the holidays!!!

The week in review

2007-03-25T23:53:00.000+12:00

Another week down.....1 week 4 days to go until the holidays!!!

This week was especially tiring for me, turning 29 must have taken my energy! I had a lovely birthday week. Things that were especially nice were the surprises the kids gave me. One of my classes baked me a birthday cake, another 2 classes filled my board with nice messages. Out of left field but I was very humbled. So far....I have lovely classes this year. I was spoilt rotten by Anthony who gave me flowers, preordered Harry Potter for me (due out in June) and bought me dinner...warm fuzzies.

A few of us went to Ginjis Mongolian Restaurant for a buffet dinner, lovely and more variety than it's equivalent in town. Highly recommend!

Earlier in the week I went with the Year 12 on the annual ecology trip, however due to a mistake in tide reading by my HOD we went to Pukerua Bay at High Tide not low, so no rocky shore to be seen, but many swells. Decided by the teachers to go to QEII park further up the coast, which seemed to work although again I got a little sunburnt....still power in that Sun yet! A great group of kids to take fortunately, and most have passed their assessment taking the change in place in their stride.

My favourite class of the week, Yoga with my Year 11's. Learning about muscles, I took for a stretch/yoga class to identify through movement where they all were. Most got really into it, got some strange looks from teachers going past the room, but was all in all hilarious fun!!

Ken hosted a Teppanyaki night on Friday night for his 28th birthday. Great catch up for the posse and many agreed it has been too long and shouldnt be this long in future. I mean I still havent seen Ed's new pad yet or properly met his new girlfriend....not good at all. This may be a new focus for me next term. Experienced Mighty Mighty a new trendy club on Cuba Street. Hard to say what its theme is, kind of post war crossed with beatnik and a bit of weird. I add weird because of the band Meet-bix playing, the bartender dressed up in a pigmask and a cop hat and the guy who seems to get kicks out of playing with the R2D2 machine. Also took in Shooters (not Shakers Kate) realising before I entered I was way too old to go in on a Friday night, although I was meeting Ant, and Laura who had been on the Single Girls Scavenger Hunt previously.

The weekend was quietish, was sick most of Saturday. Watched Snakes on a Plane (surprisingly good) and Friends with Money (which is a pure chick flick watching most of it on my own, but not too bad). Sunday, lots of work to do and was done (yay).....I find now since I do NCEA marking its hard to do ordinary marking knowing you arent getting paid any more for it. Family came around, family had arguements, younger family members played the adults off against each other to avoid him getting into trouble, older family members frustrated with her grandchildren and their attitudes to life etc etc.

On the wedding front, got our first engagement present (that wasn't from our parents)..weeee! Ant's Nanna gave us a lamp. Next meeting with the Priest next Saturday, update will follow on that one.

Weight watchers lost 2.1kilos this week, totalling 5.1kilos. I got a 5 kilo bookmark and a bravo star. I am not so positive this week - two birthdays in the last week with dinners out, could be a big ouch! Wait and see.

Have a good week!! :)

29 is nigh...

2007-03-18T14:23:00.000+12:00

It's my birthday on Wednesday, turn 29. This is an age which many people claim to be for the rest of their lives. For me, I have not really thought about it that much, mainly I think because of the wedding and engagement party planning, and the stress and organisation that is involved with that. Decided at the last minute to go out for dinner to Ginji's like Gengis Khan in Wellington. Not a huge do but the important people will be there :) I hope 29 will be as good as 28, as last year was definitely my year!

From there, two and a half weeks until the engagement party - about 60 people have confirmed they are coming...yay!!! Quite excited. Hope the weather is good for it.

Wedding update - have the Church, reception venue booked. Just booked videographer/photographer. Flowergirl dress and flowers sorted. Things are progressing, however I really want to get transport , flowers and entertainment sorted. So if anyone knows of a good band/dj/florist/cool cars please let me know.

Have bought another budgie called Bluebelle, a female, very pretty. She is a lot bigger than lil' B and as a biologist it fasinatiing viewing the dances, hierarchy struggle between the two. Actually there is no struggle. Bluebelle is the head bird in the cage! As far as birds go, they are very entertaining.

School is trucking along. 2 weeks 4 days to go till the holidays. Got the Year 12 Biology Fieldtrip to Pukerua Bay tomorrow. No class teaching, I like days like that. To be honest as well so far the kids have been pretty good with no real issues thus far...is it the calm before the storm????

The weather has cooled. I am glad. While I like Summer, I have achieved my tan but am ready to move to cooler weather and not feeling guilty for staying indoors and watching DVDs. The extra hour sleep today was great! Yesterday was a taste of Winter. Kate, Ange and I caught up for hot coffees, healthy snacks, DVD's, Irish Stew and gossip.....all good!!!

Also I joined Weight Watchers. A big brave step for me to admit it, but I have. It's not that bad. The secret is eat smart. You don't have to starve yourself. I'm doing the points plan, and have only gone over once (damn desert at Anneleise's, but it was pretty good). In my first week I lost 3 kilos!!! Tres chuffed!!! I did get warned it wouldnt't be like that every week but its a good statrt :) All that know so far are very supportive and the meetings are great motivation!

Anyway that is all for now. Does anyone know any good love songs?

About time I updated this!

2007-02-27T19:44:00.000+13:00

I lost my voice - actually couldnt talk. Not for long though, is coming back slowly. It got a rest from teaching use today at sports day. No voice = much frustration!

Oh dear.......my house came last in the athletics day. Not good, although to be honest after an absolutely fabulous day with superb weather and monitoring the gladiator beam challenge, it
made for a fun day.

There were still many smiles afterwards, although ................
there were a few sly comments from Jackson (green) house - must be the first time they didn't come last. There were also a few worries though when a tiger was spotted in the field.

My form class were awesome and did me proud, a few even getting in track finals. Ive grown to love my form class this year, they are a great group!

Wedding Updates

As not-kate has pointed out, the bridesmaids dresses were bought - three dresses for less than one at the original price - woo hoo has to be the bargain of the year, and now two out of three have tried them on, and if they don't attract the opposite sex, well I would be surprised!

We have booked the church - Anthony's old church where he went to the primary school, had first communion, was an altar boy and confirmed. Because of my non-Catholic religion choice, we have to meet with the Priest on Saturday and go through a programme in June/July. It's a little intimidating but should be an experience at the same time.

Reception venue is booked at the Petone Workingmans Club. Hiring a function room there. So far though, not the most helpful people, and seem surprised that both Anthony and I both work and cannot come in throughout the day, so hopefully get to go and have a good look on Saturday.

Oh oh my first Bridal show at Wallaceville House on Sunday - very excited!

Hopefully are going to take dance lessons next term at HVHS, get a free CD to practise to- should be hilarious, okay well from my side - Anthony can actually dance.

My favourite part of the weekend - I got a budgie!

On Saturday afternoon, a little budgie kept flying into our yard. Anthony decided to go on safari armed with a work shirt, bird seed and a box trap to catch it. He is now my pet - called Lil' B.

Very entertaining to watching and have decked him out with a super duper cage with lots of toys. Has become quite at home with P diddy (canary), Gus (green parrot) and brat (mutated cockateil from Wainui). One step along the pet path to a puppy I say. Lil' B definitely has personality.

Invites are out for the engagement party - my brother rocks! Did them completely himself, even drawing in the buterflies and branches! He got all the art talents! Thanks bro!

XTREME......

2007-02-12T20:57:00.000+13:00

Schools back, so far no dramas - it is the second day. Honestly I needed to go back to work.....I was bored!!!

A lovely weekend was had, the weather cooled a little but the sun was still out!!

Saturday was spent doing an annoying addictive wasiji puzzle...its still going. It was also spent picking out wedding bands. We went to Stewart Dawsons, and the lady was so helpful!! She explained everything, and a couple of choices were picked out. So if you are ever in the market - I will recommend Stewart Dawsons in Queensgate, just lovely! Another bonus is that I now have someone to make my dress, so something else to tick off the ever growing list of things to do.

Saturday night was lovely at Kai in the City - a Maori restaurant as notkate has explained, good catch up and good food. I had the traditional hangi consisting of pork, chicken and lamb cutlets on a kumara mash with cress...mmm mmmm followed by some kumara pie and ice cream........yummy!!!

Sunday was catch up time with Ed who will shortly be moving to the basin end of Newtown. We ventured off to X- Air. Totally awesome - love the extreme sports especially the bmx and fmx. We figured we may have been in older age bracket attending, however with charging for tickets this year, it definitely stopped all the crowds and queues. A lot of school children there and even some hellos and hugs from ex-students, who would have thought????

The Booty Call Commandments

2007-02-07T23:36:00.000+13:00

After hearing this on the radio last week, I thought I would share these to help those who want to have a successful booty call :)

Moses' Booty Call Commandments:

Thou shalt get out before the sun rises

Thou shouldest never ask "can we see each other from now on?"

Thou shalt refrain from referring to our activities as "lovemaking."

Thou shalt not request advanced plans.

Thou shalt kiss anywhere except my mouth.

Thou shalt scream my name often.

If someone cometh over whilst thou art here, thou art my cousin from out of town.

Thou shalt not ask me to walk thee to thy car.

Don't thou knoweth what that looketh like?

There shall be no "pillow talk."

There shall be no cuddling -- ever!

And my own point that I will make - If you develop feelings for said booty caller that are for more than the booty - booty calling will not work for you - there is no future - you want a relationship. Stop the booty calling, the caller will not want what you want and this will lead to you getting hurt. This is the time to find someone who wants to go in the same direction as you.

That is all for now!

On this day......

2007-02-05T00:28:00.000+13:00

February 5th 1977 - 30 Years Ago.....my Mum and Dad got married in Brisbane, Australia. So today marks their Pearl Anniversary! Happy Anniversary Ma and Pa :)

The weekend brought more glorious weather, and more burning on top of last weeks effort...lovely. Friday night was spent outside with drinks by candle light on the back lawn with Ant, Aaron, and Laura. Good times, and amazing how one can be so entertained by fire and wax... sounds a little dodgy now that I have written it, but really you should know me better ;)

Saturday was spent mainly in the car on the road to Foxton to visit Ant's Nanna for an engagement lunch. It was nice, but a long way on a hot day. And well, there is not a lot to say about Foxton....nice windmill????

Sunday involved not a lot, but a trip to the red barn to get the gazebo for our engagement party....weeee I am getting more excited about the whole process now. Like a bull at the gate I started to assemble it for a trial run - needless to say instruction reading may not be my best skill, and resulted in partly dismantling it later so one could cover it with the canopy! Ok so I'm not that tall. It looks awesome with the extra side panels and with some ideas from Lynley for the decor and theme, it should be all good. Bring on April 7th! Oh and Ant and I have decided to bring the wedding forward to Frebruary 29th 2008 - In Ant's thinking - we only have to remember our anniversary every four years, so when others celebrate their 40th, we'll still be just getting to our 10th!

Planes,house warming, a christening and a wedding!

2007-01-30T00:08:00.000+13:00

It was initially thought that this weekend was going to be reasonably quiet, however many things happened, including some great weather as well - I'm sun burnt (ouch!)

PLANES

After deciding to flag the races this year, Brad (Ant's nephew) came around and somehow I got to help him make, paint and build up a plane. This came from a kit Ant gave Brad for Christmas, which consisted of a mini sander, drill, saw and lave all in good working order. A lot of fun actually and together we did a pretty good job. Jess (Ant's niece) came around later, and I have to say I was impressed with their behaviour, I have never seen Brad concentrate so much! Here is the result!

Butter wouldn't melt in their mouth as my mum used to say...hmmm

HOUSE WARMING

Thanks Fish and Sam for the lovely house warming on Saturday night. Awesome house, good food, interesting conversation and people - my favourite conversation being about the many sides to Internet Dating, and key words to watch for that really meant sex - "coffee", "good time", "drive", "casual", "fun" etc....And there was one person who manage to insult most groups of people in the world....except middle aged single South African women ;) Oh and I finally saw the comet everyone has gone on about...cooooool!

CHRISTENING

Sunday morning brought the baptism of Emily Suzanne, Aaron and Fran's second daughter (10 weeks). Lovely occasion at the church where Emily was fast asleep for most of the ceremony, and Caitlyn (18 months) the oldest stole the show with her sprints and giggles around the church. After the ceremony, the guests returned to Aaron and Fran's house for the naming ceremony and planting of a cherry tree for Emily - a lovely idea. Just when one thought it was time for refreshments and toasts - Aaron announced one more ceremony was to be held - Aaron and Fran were getting married RIGHT THEN!

WEDDING

A celebrant appeared out of no where, the couple assembled, my fiance and Fran's best friend took their places as Best man (which saw his matching outfit with Aaron finally making sense) and Matron of Honour, and the wedding commenced - everyone was very surprised! I congratulate Ant for managing to keep the secret from me - Well done! Ceremony was beautiful and brought a tear to my eye.....YAY! I like weddings! A casual affair with everyone they considered important there, later served with lunch, wedding cupcakes, desert, and many glasses of bubbles. A beautiful day as well. Congrats Aaron and Fran :)

Summary of Dunners - Summer '07

2007-01-24T23:00:00.000+13:00

As Team America says - Everyone loves a montage, so here is a brief pictorial show of the rest of my trip to Dunners

New Years Eve - Fireworks in the Octagon

Catching up with Julie, Charlotte, Madeline, Frances and Fionas daughter (now 5) Natasha

Spending time with the family (Bro - Scott, and Ma and Pa)

Finally getting my engagement ring sized (YAY!)

Going for a drive and discovering a cruise ship at Port Chalmers - immediately thinking of the Love Boat- they always seem to have so much fun!

As said just bits and pieces, more went on but no pics for it. Nice to visit but glad to be back in Welly :)

The Scooby Doo Gang????

2007-01-15T23:01:00.000+13:00

Which scooby doo character are you???? not-kate and I recently had a conversation about which of our friends fitted the profiles of the scooby doo gang, realising that the posse is really the scooby doo gang in diguise!! We wondered why we hadn't realised this before!!!! After doing a Scooby test it was confirmed that I was Scooby!

You scored as SCOOBY DOO - Loyal, playful, and just plain awesome!

Shaggy (Norville Rogers)- Laid back, goody buddy, loves to eat - who else but Ken????

Velma Dinkley - Someone analytical and solves mysteries - Kate

Daphne Blake - Red head, likes shopping - Ange

Scooby Dum - Makes regular appearances, loveable and always
amusing :) - Ryan

Fred Jones - Can be a little serious, goes into spooky places, good historian solves mysetries - Ed.

Scrappy Doo - Like a bull at the gate usually insist on trying to directly fight the various monsters Scooby and his associates encountered - "Let me at 'em" - Anthony. (Sorry Kate, but after reading the biography - Simon just didn't fit the description.

Yabba Doo - Scooby Doo's cousin - Brave and solved mysteries out west -
The west is like the Hutt in this case - Sam

Ruby Doo - Scoobys Sister - has motherly qualities, lovely (Scrappy's Mum - nothing implied here though) - Fish.

Rules are made to be broken....

2007-01-10T00:12:00.000+13:00

That's the tag line from Saw 3, from which I just returned from viewing.

"I want to play a game" - that line you may be more familiar with if you saw seen Saw and Saw II. I was to be honest a little apprehensive to see the movie, after it being heard that people ran out of the theatre and threw up, couldn't watch it and how it was so much more horrific than the first two. Okay, so it was horrific - the pureed maggoty pigs did get me a little sweaty (more from pure grossness), but even after some of the more visual scenes, I was still able to go back and eat my popcorn. My brother Scott (seen below)

will verify this, and commented that while I stopped when torture was going on, once it had finished, I was all good. If you have seen the first two and appreciate the twists and turns that go with them, I do recommend the third. The extremely visual and ewwww scenes are just part of the package. I will not go into the story but I would say it is maybe not for those with a weak stomach.

One thing the movie did do for me was reinforce my dislike for clowns. I have never liked them, they are not funny and I do now link them to mass killings - IT, John Wayne Gacy, Killer Clowns from Outer Space. Yes I do realise only one is real, but I still make the link.

On my retreat to Dunedin I have viewed a few movies, mainly on DVD. I do like the escapism of it. My parents have a vast DVD collection which is better than hiring any day. So far I have watched:

The Lake House - Although it has Keanu Reeves in it, I did think it was a lovely chick flick, and brought a tear to my eye at certain times.

Father of the Bride - I'm in the wedding mood, so why not. Classic comedy. Sneakers with lace laces are not such a bad idea for bridal shoes. I'm still maintaining I will be wearing flat shoes - pretty but also comfortable!

You, Me and Dupree - Predictable, was okay, funny in parts. Not the biggest Owen Wilson fan but filled up an hour and a half of my life.

Garfield 2 - Tale of Two Kitties - Yes, it's kids film, but funny! I like animal movies. Garfield takes me back to my childhood, all good, clean fun!

Hoodwinked - Funny cartoon interogation of Little Red Riding Hood, and what really went on.

Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire - Seen it before, read the book but still a great movie, bring on the release of Flight of the Phoenix!

I've also managed to watch a few Seinfeld episodes with Scott - who can forget the Soup Nazi, the Hot Tub, and the Calzone. Anthony gave me a series of Seinfeld for Christmas, can't wait to watch it!

Movies aside I was sad to see the ending of an 8 year flatting situation of two friends Phil and Bronagh. I flatted with both of them for a year when at Uni, and while some relationships and marriages don't last that long, they manage to put up with each other for 8 years. Well done!! Phil is off the the UK next month, while Bronagh has gone to Queenstown.

A final note, compulsary doggy photo. Below is Sooty now almost 11. Basically the third child in the house. Awwwww ( I know, she is just so cute!)

Good ol' Dunners

2007-01-04T23:09:00.000+13:00

There's no place like home - Dorothy (Wizard of Oz)

Back in my home town of Dunedin (and damn proud of being from here), one of the things I most enjoy doing is catching up with friends and family. During my first few days here, I have done a bit, and thought would put updates of my friends from Dunners so those of you who know them around the world can keep updated too :) And those of you that don't know them, well you can get a picture of who I go on about!

First up..... Frances

Now last time I went to Dunedin, Frances had just bought her new house. Now she has settled in and Fiona and her gorgeous (and very well mannered) daughter Natasha (5) are staying with her at the moment (Note: Will need to get photo of Fiona and Natasha). Frances is continuing to show how weight watchers does work, and still looks awesome! She has a new man who she is seeing, Shane (another photo needed)who is a draughtsman, who I met on New Years Eve who is just lovely and they seem very happy. He should be moving in with her in the next few months, and all going well, an engagement will loom - Fran has found the perfect ring too :). Fran is still nursing and seems to be enjoying it still. Good to see her happy. Go you good thing!

Secondly......Juanita

Now Juanita and I worked out we have known each other since Form 1, and that was approx 18 years ago....more than half our lives....awesome! Great to see her before she moves over to Sydney joining her fiance (yes...another engagement) Scott on Saturday. Apparently I can go visit and stay with them but as long as I have Anthony in tow....I don't see that being a problem! Again looks awesome and happy and told the story of her proposal at Port Douglas where she almost pushed Scott off the rocks when saying yes. When Juanita and I get together we are really like old women gossiping and time always flies. We alway said we should end up in the same rest home..makes sense really. Filled each other in on the goss. Another classmate Kirsty Moss is engaged for the second time, her brother who we thought was cool when at school, is not doing the best for himself these days, along with a lot of guys we thought were cool back then. Rachael Gardiner got married in 2006, still living in Hamilton and teaching. Her Dad got remarried just before Christmas. A few pregnancies, a thai girlfriend, some going back to study, high school friends are now more, and others now working for parents. The list goes on....but great to see her and hope all goes well in Aussie.

Thirdly.....Davanea

We seem to catch up every two years or so. Davanea brought her fiance (yes...another engagement) Nick down to Dunners for the first time. They live in Auckland, so apart from the Speights Brewery, Im not so sure he was overly excited about the place, but had developed the same feeling for Davanea's Mum's cats that we all share...he he. Great to see her too, in one of Dunedins summer days (I got slightly burnt too). All seems to be well with her, working at Hort Research, living in Mount Albert and they are hoping to buy a house by Easter....then work on the wedding plans. Thanks also for the awesome pressie!

Another chapter will come - still more catch ups!!!!

WE GOT ENGAGED!!!!!

2006-12-29T16:49:00.000+13:00

27th December - Cassie and Anthony got engaged in Park Road Retreat http://www.parkroad.co.nz Carterton, Waiarapa. Very exciting!!!! Plus it's an awesome getaway - I recommend!!!

Ant proposed to me infront of the roaring fire (a bit of mood lighting, even though it wasn't cold at all) in the above setting at night time.

The above bottle of sauvignon blanc, I consider to be a very lucky bottle of wine. It was purchased with Ed, Kate, Ange, and Mandy last year a week before the winery burnt down. I have been waiting for a special occasion to have it (It was Ant's birthday on the 27th) so thought this was it. Turns out it was also special as we got engaged too!

More to come as for details on dates (mainly sorted but yet to confirm), the ring I recieved as an IOU ring, so can save for a diamond. This is a great idea - two rings :)

Deck the Halls....

2006-12-21T20:37:00.000+13:00

My proper holidays have finally started!!!

I have finally finished marking NCEA papers!!! All nearly 1300 of them....and yes Im feeling a little blah.....speech is hard and more often Ive been told to stop acting like a retard (no comments thank you ;) ). There are a few points that come out of this though.

- Some children are just not that smart

- Some teachers have taught children some 'interesting' concepts (You can tell this by getting five in a row from the same school code, and there is some weird phrase used)

- Students like to draw cars (there is no need for this in the exam though - it is a biology exam)

-Some areas of the country produce better students than others

- There are some really smart children who write just like the marking schedule (helps lots)

- Viruses do not reproduce by someone going achooo

- Paying scientists to find out who the parents are is not the correct answer (while that would be what we really do)

- A lot of students don't care (many told me that in their exam papers too)

- I really like blank papers (still get paid for them)

Christmas is just around the corner....not going home this year which will be weird. Am having Christmas with Anthony's family. Have basically become part of the family anyway, but will miss my own family on the day. Sent a big present parcel and will see them on New Years Eve. I love my home visits. Appreciate them more as I get older. Since its Christmas here are more lights.

Only 4 sleeps to go!

More Camp Kaitoke

2006-12-17T20:13:00.000+13:00

Here is Ryota who loved having his photo taken - this was later on in the session during the kayaking.

The bush survival was probably my least favourite. After many forced tramps in my youth, I not the keenest bunny for bush walking. Parts of it were ok though....we learnt bush survival, made fire, and the kids made their own huts as seen below which they were quite proud of! It ended in some warped bush walk which ruined my sneakers and are still mud ridden (excuse to buy a new pair though). One bonus of it was I was fit enough, just not that coordinated!

My group - 2 who wagged on the last day ( no one wanted to do the bush survival and it had rained in the morning - kids are soft!) They were cool though - I felt lucky :)

Awww look at the doggy! This was one of three dogs at the horse riding. He had a gimpy leg which had lead him to fame being on the first few minutes of KING KONG where he hopped across the screen. His owner was very proud! Awesome dog, loved the belly rub! Apparently he got paid $300 a day for 3 days work! Nice!

Camp Kaitoke

2006-12-17T20:08:00.000+13:00

The last week of school - three days were spent with Year 10 at Camp Kaitoke - a few piccys of my group (who were just awesome!) and the acitivities we did. Firstly orienteering - that sucked but got better when the walkie talkies came out - Victor Charlie Charlie.......Used in playing hide and go seek. I had to hide at one point - got to chill out in an old pine tree, quite relaxing really :)

After lunch we went on the obstacle course. Now I realise as I have got older, my fear of heights and uncoordinatedness has increased - this course was not my cup of tea but great to watch - bonus of being the teacher!

Next day was archery - the best activity! While I started off shooting the arrows throw the corrugated plastic windows, I ended with a giant bruise on my inner arm from the string and got many more on the target - lots of fun!

The afternoon consisted of horse riding - well not for me- teachers werent allowed. But the instructer said I looked very young like a student (Year 10???? though) so I was happy with that. The horses were resucued and made up part of an animal sanctuary which had also recently taken on monkeys from a circus. I have a new appreciation for horses (apart from when one drooled green grass saliva on my t shirt), but they are truly lovely animals!

The next morning was pontoons where the kids had to use the available equipment to build a bridge over to the island. The picture shows what they came up with and it worked well! They were rewarded with going kayaking afterwards :)

N C E A - doesnt have the same ring as Y M C A somewhat!

2006-12-05T23:08:00.000+13:00

Here are a few more piccys of some of the lights. I have just returned from a loooonnnng NCEA markers meeting. It went surprisingly well, but it was still 8 hours I will never get back. Marking season has officially started. The paper this year looks alright, better than last year and Im not clouded by glandular fever as well :) Over the next couple of weeks, I will again wonder why the hell Im doing this, and how its not worth it, get up at the crack of dawn and mark so I can still have a social life and go to all the Christmas functions like other people. However it will be all worth it in January when the cheque arrives....whats losing your sanity for a couple of weeks really......no smart ass comments needed thank you ;)

Yay Me!

2006-11-28T20:37:00.000+13:00

Just a little self applause......... clap clap clapI got the Assistant Head of Department of Science today! Very excited. Also found out that my friends Andy (Andrea) and Mike are expecting a baby....a day for good news. Also 2 weeks 3 days to go!!!!

Another note - another Christmas Santa hanging from a parachute in the garden....more photos to come!

Observations of the Hutt thus far

2006-11-27T20:36:00.000+13:00

Its been just over a week since I officially moved to the Hutt. I would like to record some observations thus far....these are not meant to be insults or compliments, just merely observations.

1. I seem to be surrounded by more smokers than non-smokers now. This I don't like, in fact I have banned smoking in my car. While some people may take the if you can't beat them, join them....I have taken the opposite route and will probably never smoke again. There is also no such thing as a considerate smoker.

2. The Wainui dairy rocks, along with Bakers delight....excellent baked goods.

3. Living across the road from a 24 hour BP (with Wild Bean) has its perks. After a drunken night either in or out...the pie and chocolate milk, along with the powerade is just waiting for you :)

4. It now only takes me 15-20 minutes to get to work - good petrol savings. Most times (except busy times) it only takes 20 mins to get to Welly.

5. My favourite cafes are still in Welly. Havent found any really good ones in the Hutt (although Galleria is pretty good, but no Maranui)

6. Most shopping I need is in the Hutt - the Mall is all of 5 minutes away.

7. The weather is always different to Welly and Upper Hutt.

8. Things are more casual. There have been a few times I've felt way too dressed up and I thought I was a casual person.

9. Its nice to live in a house again, although can't wait till I have my own things around me again. Many times I feel like a guest.

10. I have discovered the Petone Workingmans Club.

11. The traffic is sooooo much better in the Hutt. This is one thing I dont miss!

12. There are more hard out Christmas people in the Hutt ;)

I'm sure I had more to write about, but no sleep makes me forget things...I understand completely what you go through Ange!

Owning a flax bag means I'm part Maori???

2006-11-26T18:01:00.000+13:00

An interesting week, and the countdown has begun to the school holidays. 3 weeks or there abouts, and it can not come quick enough. My two classes are loosely what I can crazy, although my year 10's are loveable rogues. Except for Miss Blondie who called me "F...k'n gay" because I confiscated her note that she passed around in class. At my old school that would have been an automatic stand down, but all she got was a detention and gave a half assed apology. I guess different communities, different rules. The years 9's are what I imagine a mental hospital to be in the activity lounge. There are so many different personalities in that class that Im not surprised they dont function well as a group.

Anyway moving on....I refereed volleyball on Friday and didn't make too many mistakes. Woo hoo. It was actually quite enjoyable controlling the game and girls watching and waiting for the whistle. Played Chilton and HVHS both fun teams, and made it easy to ref, lots of fun chants from HVHS and even when I made a mistake, they gave me a positive "its ok ref" chant.

Saturday involved a trip to Foxton to visit Ant's grandmother. I had never met her before so was interesting. To be honest Im not particularly good with old people and do lack patients at times. Seem pleasant enough and could see where many of the family traits came from. Went out for lunch, and was informed my name was linked to the Prophetess of Doom (just lovely) and later found out she asked Ant if I was part Maori because I carried around a kete (flax bag).....ummm ok....I could see how she could have thought that (what the hell???) After dropping the ol' duck off we made our way home making a few purchases on the way.

Saturday night was Judge's birthday dinner at Hede, a girly night with lots of gossip. Judge was a little on the quiet side, however Ange provided entertainment with her serviette searching skills, her long thoughtful moments, her ability to cover the table with her wine and her story of her latest crush.....good to see you happier though Ange :) Later on, went on to the old Crazy Lounge which is now an off shoot of Fidels. All good :)

Today was meant to go to a kids Christmas party but ended up going to the Kirks Christmas shop...I was in my element. So pretty! All colour coordinated and themed. Fantastic!!!! Bring on Christmas!! I personally think the build up is more exciting.

A few more lights put up in the yard...very cool, cant lose track of where I live now. Found some mini glass angels today to put in the window, very cute.

Deck the halls!!!!

Raindrops keep falling on my head...

2006-11-17T14:51:00.000+13:00

Once again its raining...actually pouring. I want Sun...it is November after all....is that too much to ask??

Its that time of year at school. The seniors have gone on exam leave for the year....wooo hooo! One suddenly has a lot more time to do all the stuff that needs to be done in order to make our lives run smoothly. Over the past few days I've helped with schemes, assessments, tidied one of my desks (I now know my desk is blue). I find Im over planning for my one or two classes I have a day, or at times not giving a toss and going in and winging it.

I did have the joy at prizegiving of having a number of students I teach getting places for subjects. One even got runner up to dux. But I managed to get 1st and 2= in Year 13 biology and 1,2 and 3 in Year 12 biology. While they probably could have got this on their own...I am proud of them :) My Year 11's while lovely and enthusiastic were not the smartest cookies, but some got house leader positions.
My house lost the cup to Blake (red) house this year. However the trophy was kidnapped for 3 days popping up in the most interesting of places.

Moving day is tomorrow, Im so over it. Still more to pack and dismantle but good to see the end is nigh. Hope the weather is better tomorrow.

NCEA marking also starting. First meeting tomorrow morning for administration. An hour driving to P'ram, two hours in a meeting, and then an hour drive home. Do you see the logic, as I certainly do not! It also involves going back to my old school, first time (apart from a volleyball game) that I have been back since last year.

Good news Ive had in the last couple of weeks.....Ant's best friend is now a proud Dad to a second daughter, Ange found and hopefully moved by now into a new flat, my flat found a new flatmate, Im moving officially (long time coming), seniors have left, a friend of mine is pregnant, another friend got a promotion to HOD, another got engaged, and my cousin is getting married tomorrow! Plus Christmas is still coming, and the backyard looks awesome! Full of lights of all different colours, a santa with a parachute, and candy canes. Can't wait till the first for the opening the advent calendar!

Have you started your Christmas shopping???

'Twas quite a few days before Christmas....

2006-10-30T00:57:00.000+13:00

.....and a storm was brewing outside. Thunder struck, lightning blazed across the sky and the rain poured on the roof in the middle of the night, and I was watching the same way I did when I was 5. Storms are cool!

A happier blog, I finally let my emotions get the better of me yesterday and cried. I feel better now, amazing what a good cry, good company and a couple of nights boozing will do.

But the one of the cooler things about living here is Christmas.....the festive season has started, and Im quite excited. The first decorations went up today (during one of the periods of non-rain), and from what I saw, there are certainly plenty more to come!

Life's like a box of chocolates......

2006-10-25T23:53:00.000+13:00

It's true, you never know what you're going to get.

Not the most cheery of blog entries, so if you want a smile, don't read any further.

A friend of mine from uni lost her life in a car accident on Sunday. I found out on Monday. I haven't had a lot of experiences with death so far in my life, so I was and still am devastated. Although I hadnt seen Rachel for about 4 years, we still kept in contact since uni. Unfortunately because she was based in Australia, I can't attend the funeral. I feel like I haven't said goodbye. Such a waste, but she had made the most of her life. As people have told me, you do start looking at your own life and start putting things in perspective. There are so many things that worry us, yet in the big scheme of things that worry time could be put to so many other uses. Life is too short, and who knows when our time is up.

I thought by writing something, it may help my mind from working overtime. I had my exam tonight. While I hope I did okay, I have information and emotion overload - and at this point Im just glad its over for now.

I've also had insomnia the last couple of days - driving me nuts! The night is so long. Yet I want to sleep when its morning....whats with that??? Any cures?

One of my good buds from Dunedin is moving to Sydney...boo, but another is moving up to Welly...yay! Still no luck on finding a flatmate for my room yet...boo :( Oh and how much does a normal car servicing generally cost??? I feel I got ripped off.

Not much more to say...like I said...not a cheery blog.

Study make my brain mushy.....

2006-10-23T15:54:00.000+13:00

Two days until my Physiology exam, on a break from studying as brain mushy, and full of information Im trying to retain until Wednesday night. Physiology is fascinating though, proving that the human body is truly a great machine. I've just finished stuyding muscle action, and realise now how important calcium is to the workings of the body, and how its presence helps muscle contraction.

This may not be my best blog, but for now its my time out, so bare with me.

Things of note:

Trade Me

I love Trade Me. Online auctions are fun. It can be quite addictive so I am glad the site is blocked at school. I've scored a few books, some Seinfeld videos, and the Over the Hedge DVD. I will never pay full price for a book again :) I was actually aiming to sell my own Patricia Cornwell books, but had to be nosey at other ones.

Seinfeld

Seinfeld is great. I scored a couple of videos of past episodes, and have just watched "the contest", where they bet who hold off choking the lizard the longest. Laughs and hilarity a plenty...good times. Really is a programme about nothing, I guess thats what I like about it. Watching some of the conversations they have remind me of conversations I have with Katie and Ange :)

Indian Festival

Went to the Indian festival of lights yesterday. Full of colour, food, and beautiful outfits. Saw Fish and the Upper Hutt College dancers shake their booty on stage to great applause. Well done, all looked awesome. Only point of notice was that they were running at least an hour late, but got to see a fashion parade of drapes, and some more traditional dances from the Lower Hutt Indian Dancing School. This was preceeded by dinner at Tulsi.....Im sure its not as good as it used to be.

Cool Website

Found this one on another blog....quite entertaining. Find your DEAD CELEBRITY SOULMATE!!!! Come on...I know you want to!

http://www.biography.com/home_page/dead_celebrity_soulmate.jsp

Mine was Billy the Kid.

Just to mention, three day weekends rock! Enough blog....back to study!

2006-10-15T10:52:00.001+13:00

A selection of pic's from a recent school trip to the zoo...got to love the animals!!! :)

Here's the bookcase Fish!

2006-10-15T09:46:00.000+13:00

A few piccys as promised. Going for $50. A few stains but nothing major. The right top corner has frayed a bit. Could do with a paint job, but completely functional as a cabinet/bookcase. Sturdy as!

What I did in my holidays by Cassie (28)

2006-10-06T10:31:00.000+13:00

This reminds me of what we used to have to do at primary school. Time has flown by, and now its (I suddenly realise how slack I've been at the whole blog thing).

Cherry Blossom Festival

On the first Saturday we headed up to the festival at the International College. A beautiful day and got my first dose of sunburn for the season. Lots of different cultures - Chinese, Japanese, Indian, Brazilian, Greek, Irish etc. Heaps of fun and lots of different food. Got my nails painted and a henna pattern put on my hand....cool and even a bit girly. Shelley said after I had bought my earrings, it was the most girly she had ever seen me :)

Coolest thing were the drummers. Was just in awe watching!

Financial Disaster

I finally decided to do something about my debt and get help. Its pretty scary when you see everything laid out infront of you and wonder where you went wrong?? Ok maybe it was the car or the big screen tv....Anyway from the Womens expo I had a consultation with a financial planner who is going to put something together for me to help on the road to less debt. Any tips on saving money would be greatly appreciated!!!

Moving to the Hutt!

This should have happened a while ago. In the last two weeks Ive only spent one night in my flat. Anyway moving completely in with Anthony on 18th November. Im excited :) Have a lot to sort out and get rid off. So far have sold my old tv, a couch, my old desktop computer. I still have to sell a fold out couch, an old stereo (cd player not working but attached a dvd player to it which serves as a cd player, a toaster, probably some crockery, and a bookcase. Im sure there will be other things once I do some more sorting. Its a new step, while being engaged before, Ive never actually lived with a boyfriend.

60th Birthday Festival

It all started last Thursday when Ant's Mum's best friend came to visit for her 60th birthday. Little did I know how bigger deal it was going to be, and became a four day festival! A lot of drinking...more by the mature women than me I add. Much respect for their stamina. A big party on Sunday with many people, food, drink and presents. A birthday lunch at Cobar in Eastbourne. Even though it was visited by Prince William....its way over rated. I say go a few doors down to Chocolate Days! A bread roll with butter was $3.50! Anway after the four days I only wanted sleep. All good. Apparently Christmas is big around here too, bring that on!

There are other things to write but actually need to do school work....yucky!

Am I a ladette?

2006-09-11T20:13:00.000+12:00

Watching tv on Saturday night...okay a tad sad I know to be home but I dont care, I came across a tv programme called from Ladette to Lady. I started to watch it, thinking ha no way Ill be a ladette, and surely more of a lady than a ladette. However the longer the programme went on (and finding it funnier and very entertaining) I started to think maybe Im more of a ladette.
Since being in a relationship, I have calmed down some what, but I still drink like a fish, have no idea of why we have so many knives and forks to eat dinner with (I used to feel for Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman), don't really dress lady like and do not cross my legs like a lady. At times the language that leaves my mouth (especially when driving in rush hour traffic) is something a little less desirable. I would rather have a beer with the boys after school at the pub than have tea and cucumber sandwiches with granny. I dont like wearing make up or high heeled shoes, and find dressing up for an occasion a novelty rather than the norm.

http://uk.tickle.com/test/ladette.html

I just did this test, and it confirmed I was a tomboy and ready for anything....such is life :) Directly from the site.....

You're ready for anything! You're a tomboy!

Ha! Just when we thought the only place where women can to do whatever they like is a sanitary towel ad, we find you bursting onto the scene. We know that you've got a great sense of fun so we hope you won't mind being labelled as a tomboy. After all, we're sure that you can remind your male mates that you're 'a lady' with eyelash fluttering ease. Let's face it, women do all the same things as men, we're just better at it. We check out the scenery just as much, we're just better at being subtle and can appreciate a wider variety of physical traits. Our farts don't smell of roses, it's just that we don't choose to make this information public unless we're really caught unawares and then we blame men anyway. There are some ladies who may look down on the way you drink pints or dare to venture out without a handbag, let alone one that doesn't match your new coat. But let's face it, you've got better things to dance round at the end of an evening spent boozing with the boys – a pole perhaps?!

Maybe one day Ill become more of a lady...he he he. Anyway if you are at home on a Saturday night, have a look at this programme. It like lady idol.

Apparently Im having a good year........

2006-08-28T19:14:00.000+12:00

After a week of domestic bliss playing house with Anthony (which we still are...and its fantastic!) What the best thing is though, is that it feels completely normal. I dont miss my flat at all. I barely have any possessions here, but it doesnt matter. I feel at home :)

A trip to the Womens Lifestyle Expo on Saturday with Kate, Ange and Lauren confirmed that I am having a good year. Like last year, I went to the Tarot Lady.

This is a rundown of what she said:

General:

It is a bright, shining and creative time for me. I have a child-like approach to things in life. This is a time when I should do what I want. I create my life through my attitudes, thoughts, actions etc...

Money:

It is a potential area to grow through savings, lotto (I wish) or something else.
Career:

Keep working as I am.....things are good as they are apparently. I need to trust myself.

Family/Home:

There is potential for an idea. I need to capture it and build on it. This is about where I live currently.

Emotions:

Im in a relationship, and very much in love. Also very happy. I dont know if bounding up and down in the chair gave that one away ;)

Maybe a lot of that stuff is logical, but it is nice to have a stranger confirm it in areas that I wonder about.

While the expo is the place of the week. My purchase of the week there was the shammy. As seen in Not-Kates blog, Lauren and I went halves in a two for one. Like many an informercial that I was conned into when I was younger (Power-rider, Get rich, lose weight and be happy with cassette tapes, the Airwalker, Natural Glow amongst others) I was sold on the presentation. However, this super shammy is great. Cleans up messes (proved with a beer spill on Saturday night), takes all those marks off your computer screens and your windscreens, soaks up liquid leaving dry surfaces. Its great. Plus with what we got, they can also be cut up into smaller pieces if needed :) Very happy with the purchase, and maybe a little over distraught when I thought I had lost them. Man, I am getting old and domesticated. I'm ok with that...I think????

Four more weeks to go at school. Once again, Im sick with a cold that has gone into my chest. I feel like the kid off Malcolm in the Middle that has to take deep breaths to talk. School is very hard, and students are not at their best at the moment, and not always the easiest to deal with. I have to remember that this happens at this time of year every year, and it passes ( I hope). On the plus side, it was shared lunch day today at work, and Rani brought in Indian curries, dahl and rice....Yum!

The Great Saturday Night Dinner Party

2006-08-21T19:18:00.000+12:00

Pictures speak louder than words.....A very successful dinner party, cooked by Chef Kitt. So much food and so little stomach room. However, it makes for brilliant leftovers. Great party, with great food and great people to share it with :)

However, once the masses had left....the left over dessert became weapons of mass destruction. It all started with Aaron trying to feed us the dessert with the airplane, and it ended like this...... in a war of banoffi and lemon meringue pie.

Product/Place of the week

2006-08-21T18:32:00.000+12:00

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PLACE - HUTT PET CENTRE

3 Pretoria Street - Lower Hutt

Now this place is cool. It seems to have everything you want in the pet world - plus a friendly black and white dog that just sits there waiting to be patted. I was on the hunt for an ant farm, which I found. But what was better were the PUPPIES!!!!!

They have an area gated off where the puppies roam and you can go in and picked them up, play with them, and basically just go ga ga (ok well I do...I love dogs) Any day can be improved by picking up a puppy and giving it a hug. I wanted to take at least two home. A definite place to go when you want cheering up.

Highlights of 2006

2006-08-15T20:20:00.000+12:00

Since being sick for the last few days, and being basically stuck in bed, I've had a lot of time to reflect on things. Many things are personal, but I have found that all in all I have had a pretty good year thus far, so......here is my

Top ten highlights of 2006 (no particular order)

1. Meeting Anthony

- who has taught me a lot about myself, and has given me different priorities in my life. Discovered it was a very small world when I did meet him, he already knew Fish and Sam. A positive influence on me, my family and friends will testify to that. I didn't even fight with my brother once last time I visited home. I could go on....but I won't :)

2. Starting a New Job

- Moved from Paraparaumu College to Upper Hutt College. I love teaching again. I still want to be a teacher! The kids are generally pretty cool, and the staff are amazing and very supportive. I look forward to going to school...a weird feeling. Finally I realise why I went into the professsion. Well you know apart from the holidays..he he.

3. Girls Night in Martinborough

- In the first term holidays of the year, five of us went to Martinbrough for the night. We hired a house, went to wineries, and ate wonderful food. A great relaxing experience with great people including one of my teachers college friends Andy from Waihi Beach who came to visit.

4. Getting a New Car

-Once a car starts costing too much, its time to get a new one. My ol' trusty silver toyota sprinter Wolf needed a new cam belt, tyres, tail light (and plastic casing since I backed into a pole at school) replacement amongst other things, so off to the car yard I went and came home with a burgundy nissan pulsar. Although smaller than my old car, its a lot more grunty and can pick up speed quicker....woo hoo. Its called Merlot.

5. Going Home

-July holidays, decided to drive home for the holidays. Detailed in an earlier blog, I had a great time and came home feeling like I had had a real relaxing holiday. Great to see family and friends, and being happier than I have been in a very long time. A lot of people have their family on their back doorstep and can see them often. I often wish I was a little closer, and love the time I get to spend at home.

6. Summer

-A weird summer where I wasnt at my best mental or physical state, but the highlight for me was being able to spend a lot of time at the beach in Dunners (yes it does get hot there) and even getting sunburnt.

7. The Posse

- Although now we dont hang out as much together, you know you can always rely on the posse to be there when you need them. We've had some good outings this year. The Trentham Races, dinner at Eastern Sunrise, various drinking events and tennis and cricket matches. I'm very lucky to have such good friends.

8 Going Back to Study

- This year decided to do some distance study through Otago Uni. I've enrolled in a Diploma in Sports Studies. So far Ive done papers in Anatomy and Principles of Exercise. Have passed them both. Have also discovered its far better to only do one paper a semester. As Dad says the papers arent going anywhere. This semester am only doing the one paper in Physiology. Why am I doing it you ask??? I need to stimulate my brain again, and learn stuff for myself. I also want to get into Sports Nutrition in the future. Ive also been accepted into a Post Grad Diploma in Community Nutrition which Ill start once Ive finished the sports studies. I love it!

9 Being Asked to be a Bridesmaid

- One of my older friends from high school is getting married next year and she asked me to be the only bridesmaid. Im very excited! Its about time one of my friends got hitched! I also get choice of what I wear..woo hoo!

10 Having More General Optimism About Life in General

- Last year was my Annus Horiblus (sorry on spelling), finishing the year with not a lot of hope for 2006. This year I have become more excited about the future, my health has improved somewhat (berocca), Im exercising again, got a good job, good friends, and a fantastic boyfriend who takes me as I am and believes I should have more self confidence. I have had less down days and have managed my condition a lot better. Basically Im learning (slowly) not to sweat the small stuff, and it makes the world of difference.

So there it is....and there are still three and a bit months to go.

Product and Place of the Week

2006-08-11T14:51:00.000+12:00

A new segment in my blog where I want to promote places and products that have made my life better, and to share with others!

PRODUCT OF THE WEEK - BEROCCA

http://www.berocca.co.uk/

Since having glandular fever last year, I have struggle with getting my energy back. My doctor recommended trying it as a cheaper alternative to xango ($60 a bottle) and health food store alternatives after her own daughter suffered the same symptoms. Now after taking BEROCCA for now about 6 weeks, I have noticed in the last couple of weeks that I have more energy and am no longer always feeling lethargic. Taken in the morning, as a pinky tablet in water - it gives me a boost. People have even noticed my increase in energy :) Well done Berocca!

PLACE OF THE WEEK - DAVIS TRADING - PETONE

Address: 20 Te Puni Street, Petone

Specialist: Bulk Foods

Although many people know about this place, I recently discovered it. Basically a bulk Asian Supermarket, its full of all sorts of great things. I picked up a giant bag of Jasmine tea - just like the tea you get at the restaurants. Plus also managed to get rice bowls, sauce dishes, and a tea pot. Even cuter were sample teas in mini caddies (awwww). My flatmate Lianne once bought sticky buns with red bean in them. I went for the BBQ pork ones, but was slightly disappointed as it was just flavoured, no hidden BBQ pork inside.

Anyway great place, very cheap, and a lot of variety! Lots of fun to be had in there!

Rats!!!!!

2006-08-09T16:13:00.000+12:00

While I wait for parent teacher interviews, I thought I might blog. Im actually pretty up to date with my work, and even finished my uni assignment well ahead of schedule....I'm stoked!

I was going to write about my $150 bidding incident, however not-kate wrote it so well, I thought people could just look at her entry. What went through my head, well it was a rare bipolar moment, where I thought sounds awesome ....why not? Didn't think of consequences until long after and when Kate was physically restraining me from raising my hand again. He he he ...still funny. Same thing happened when I was outbid on Cash Battle.

Highlight of the week so far...the great rat dissection with my Year 12's. If you get grossed out by guts etc, dont look at the pics. Remember these are not students, they are butchers. Lots of fun anyway :) And just remember, us humans look very similar to that inside, we are both mammals afterall.

Something else that has amazed me this week. Everyone around me is getting sick, and Im not...is the curse finally over???? Coughs, sneezes, lost voices, running noses, and Im still all good..yay!

Also, while at the zoo on Sunday, I bought an ant farm for a Year 10 project. After three days, it leaks, there are more ants outside the farm and in another beaker - but the kids are persuing it, and have even made it a dark shelter, as apparently, ants like to chill out in the dark. Bought two blow up animals (cheetah and snake) to brighten up the room - the snake has a bell in it - high amusment for the students.

Well soups almost up and interviews are upon me, only one more set of interviews after tonight. I dont like them one bit. Someone suggested that teachers should charge $5 an interview since its out of work time. With 19 interviews, that would be $95. Not a bad nights work.

Just a note to not-kate. The skull and man in uniform are a huge hit at work. Mihail took it into House assembly this morning and scared the kids with it. Well done on the choices. The kids love the pig.

Awwwww.....

2006-08-04T14:57:00.000+12:00

I just had the nicest compliment given to me by my Year 11 students

"Miss, I have to commend you on your teaching skills. I hated Science last year, but I love it this year. I always look forward to coming to class. You make it heaps of fun, and I've learnt heaps this year. Thanks Miss"

I almost cried, but took the compliment and said thank you.

Hokey Pokey is fun, and even better when the sugar high will hit in the next class. Dry ice makes for great air hockey :)

Warm fuzzies :)

Blah blah blah

2006-08-03T09:17:00.000+12:00

Its been one of those weeks, that to be honest I cant wait for it to end. Nothing in particular has gone wrong or badly...but I just feel like crap. I know it will pass, but just wish it would do it quickly.....perhaps its the midwinter blues.

Have started back at the gym and walking a bit more regularly. When its warmer I want to get into swimming again. Swimming is great, a great time to zone out and have me time.

24 hours later.....

Feel a bit better today. I realised I have had a really good teaching week. 2 heart lung dissections, 1 rat dissection, lots of fire and explosions, made pretty patterns with meths and fire, made hokey pokey, my years nines went hard out and made some great environmental creatures (crocodiles and glitter bugs amongst them), and building bridges. School has been all good. If I could just go and teach everyday without all the administration and admin stuff, it would be good.

Had personal training last night. Did me the world of good. My trainer is making me do high weights low reps. I finally feel like Im better. Cant wait till i get back to 300kg on the leg press. Did squats last night - great for your butt and thighs, chest press and shoulder press, and a little cardio. Got the good pain today, just have to remember not to sit down too long :) The gym has again become one of my feel good zones.

Made the bomb apricot chicken last night, fully impressed and got compliments too. Had a chilled night as well which has improved my mood and happiness level.

Found out last night, have no flatties this weekend...woohoo. I love those sorts of weekends. Got a couple of parties this weekend, a dinner and going to the Cultural evening at school tonight. Hopefully the weather is good too :)

Run out of time, thats all folks!

Bits and Pieces

2006-07-25T22:05:00.000+12:00

Righto to start with here are some quotes...guess who said them and where they come from:

"Water is wet, the sky is blue, women keep secrets....who gives a fuck!"

"Do you ever get the feeling that America is completely fucked up."

"Only two things are infinite - The universe and human stupidity - and Im not sure about the former."

Courtesy of Anthony :)

Here are some things I have learnt or observed from the past week:

1) Appreciate your parents, and make the effort to spend quality time with them while they are here. You'll never know when something may happen.

2) Always check who you are sending an email to - it can go to the wrong address and cause a can of worms to open that you would prefer to have shut.

3) Children are very honest - and sarcasm goes way over their heads.

4) Sleep is fantastic.

5) A beach walk on a fresh Winters evening does you wonders.

6) I love my new duvet.

7) I am going through a winning streak. I have won two movie competitions, and a lotto ticket in the last couple of weeks.

8) You can never have too many friends - I am very lucky to have the friends I do.

9) There are a lot of cops and security people at the train station on Saturday nights.

10) Boys talk filth all the time, it never stops.....goes on and on and on. I went from hanging with one group of male friends to my boyfriend and his best mate, and I swear it was the same conversation.

Other things - professional development sessions suck, dogs are the best pets - they love you unconditionally, red wine comes out of carpet with white wine and salt and there is a cool gallery in Island Bay which has paintings of scenes in Wellington. I like the one of the Hall Street Dairy.
Oh and I am a bit of a geek/dork :)

The Family Induction

2006-07-18T22:04:00.000+12:00

Now before I start, due to many of my past relationships not lasting long enough to meet parents, or having a fiance who not only is overseas but so is his family, my experience with meeting the "boyfriends family" is limited.

However this was about to change.....

First of all a little history.

Anthony and I met in January through the Internet. I actually started chatting to him when I was down home. Met in person when came back at Espressoholic, and went out for dinner and to Narnia. A pleasant evening, and it went from there. Six months later, its all good, really really good :) The future looks rosey in many different ways.

However I digress.

On Sunday, I was invited to Ant's brothers birthday lunch. Now I have met bits of his family before, and many of them at a wake. I have got to know his Mum most of all, mainly as he lives at home. I like her, she always has me feel welcome, included me in things, and is easy to talk to, and has always seemed interested in what I have to say, even though many a time I rant on (no comments needed there) From that you can see I have got past the shyness part with her :)But this was sort of different as I was partaking in a family event. I felt privileged.

Arrived at bro's house for a few drinks beforehand. Here I re-met his bro, his partner, old family friends, his niece and nephew, and the aunt (the character that every family has).

A few drinks had, didnt say much, my shyness came out a bit. It can be hard when everyone else knows each other. But all very friendly, and once the kids pointed out I didnt say much, I started talking more.

Things to note from this part:

I have the same music taste as an 8 and 10 year old.
The aunt called me "girlfriend"
I am still allergic to the kitten
Wall mounted TVs are cool
I still feel I am up with what is cool with kids
There were more smoking adults than not - had not experienced that for a while, I went outside at points to socialise!

Then on to Tulsi...yum!

Arrived at Tulsi in Petone, booking for 12. A lot of introductions, and was introduced by Anthony as his partner. While I realise this to be true, I hadnt heard it before - kind of cool.

Now I hadnt been around younger children for a while - so forgot how they act in more adult situations. The niece was lovely trying to be like the big adults and joining in conversation. The nephew while pretty cool, didnt like the fact the birthday celebration wasnt all about him. He was quickly bored and wanted to go home. But once he was told about the water fountain outside, his attention was grasped for about 20 minutes and he was off :) Another boy was there, Jordy who was cool (12) and thought that ACDC was the coolest band in the world. He also liked Linkin Park too, so went up on my cool list.

Lunch was fab. Lots of wine to be had, and hiding the bottles to avoid the corkage costs :) Everyone tries to do it, funny part was it was the neice that suggested how to do it.

The funniest part at this point was when the Aunt, who by this time was well enjoying the vino, decided to make her own doggy bag - with serviettes and a poppadom. Now if it was dry that would be fine, but it was used to put her left over curry into her handbag. The table was in fits of laughter. Again good times, and was made very welcome. Anthony was asked, is Cass your girlfriend? They seemed alright with the fact I was.

Back to bro's for drinks

A lot of general chit chat, more drinks, kids getting more restless, however the power of the playstation did help things. Conversation became a little more r-rated amongst adults. There was a family arguement which I quite happily sat back from and observed. Coming from a small family this was something I rarely saw. Things were resolved although some disagreements between the adults over the argument......most people probably have had this happen at their own family functions.

At the end of the night, we returned home and was nicely said to me by Anthony - Welcome to the family...warm fuzzies :) Its nice to be accepted into an already very close family, and know that they are genuine about it. Anthony told me at one point that he was told to hold onto me, and I have approval from his mum too...that means a lot also.

Im very content with things right now.

The Weekend

2006-07-16T21:52:00.000+12:00

The weekend before the school term commences.....I made the most of it!

Friday night - girls night - see not kates and charlie browns blog.

Lots of girly fun - Chilean restaurant, awesome desert consisting of rocky road ice cream, dairy milk choc sauce and crushed maltesers...mmmm mmmm, cosmo quizzes, stupid/funny photos, realising we are dorks, blogging, and of course gossip!

Saturday - Brunch - Petone

Longest drive ever due to a slip, an hour and a quarter to get there, at brunch for 45 minutes. Made the most of the trip out there by shopping and buying stuff from a Briscoes sale - brings back so many shopping memories. A little worrying that we all bought tea towels and were very excited about it. Mine were pastel striped....very cute and what a bargin. I may also add that we talked about towels in depth at lunch. I confess Im nesting, and loving it. Plus..yes we are getting old.

Dinner was made for me by Anthony - good lasagne - the best he has ever made according to him :)

Sunday rolled around.....and there will begin my new blog....Going to my first proper Kitt family function as Anthony's partner :)

La Maison de Frances

2006-07-16T20:23:00.000+12:00

Just a few last notes on my trip to Dunners, but really its just more pics. First up is my best mate Frances' house that she has recently bought. Great house, lots of sun, and a cool creek to play in or near :). Have been friends with her since high school, and if you wanted to know anything about me, she would be your best bet to ask. Mum calls her the second daughter.
Other highlights of the trip were catching up with Phil and Bronagh my old flatties from Pitt Street who still flat together after about 7-8 years (Ive lost count) and my intermediate buddy Juanita, who unfortunately will be moving back to Oz at the end of the year. 80's and Rock Singstar with a few wines and Fran. Of course family were great and got to see more of them than I usually do. Then the holiday was over, I drove back to Wellington, shopped in Chch along the way and got the rocky ferry back to the north island (complete with ex students...shudder) and I was home :)

Cassies Top 10 Famous Men to Sleep With - The Exempt List :)

2006-07-14T23:45:00.000+12:00

In no particular order.....

1) Colin Farrell - Bad Boy

2) Harrison Ford (Back when he was Indiana Jones)

3) Jake Gyllenhaal (Jarhead) - Gorgeous eyes

4) Jack Johnson - Plays guitar, surfs and is hot

5) Daniel Carter- No talking to me when he is on screen

6) Vin Diesel - Bad boy

7) Joaquin Phoenix - Again the eyes...

8) Hugh Grant (Back in Four Weddings and a Funeral)

9) Mark Wahlberg - After seeing the Big Hit - Yum!

10) Kelly Slater (World Champion Surfer) - Hot since Baywatch

Close in the running were:

Brad Pitt, Orlando Bloom, Jesse Metcalfe, George Clooney, Johnny Depp, Jonny Wilkinson, Hugh Jackman, Leonardo di Caprio, and Antonio Banderas.

Laugh-a-lot and So Serious

2006-07-14T15:03:00.000+12:00

Here are a few piccies missed off last time. Charlotte (Brunette) and Madeline (Ginger) and their Mum Julie, plus me and Fran :)

Dunners!

2006-07-14T08:57:00.000+12:00

Time escaped from me...never got another chance to write about my trip down south, so thought I would give a highlights package.

After leaving Christchurch, I drove down to Dunedin, finally finding a Wild Bean in Rolleston - mmm good coffee but was a little too much effort for them to put the sugar in as well. Im obviously spoilt in Wellington. Drove through Ashburton which still had snow on the ground, Timaru where I got the bird from male older driver who didnt want me to pass him at 130km/h (that was the speed he built up to on the passing lane when he was previously was at 90km/h) He didnt count on the grunt of Merlot and its driver :). Passed through Oamaru where everyone looked the same...no more comment there. Then I came to the Dunedin boundary.....just outside of Palmerston (the orginal) which is still 45minutes away from the city!

Anyway, on to home. There to greet me was Sooty the dog, also the third child. Anyone who has been to my parents house will completely understand.
Ahhhh home was wonderful, its like a peaceful slow paced haven from the hustle and bustle of Wellington. My parents live on the Peninsula at Macandrew Bay, a beautiful place. One which I appreciate so much more now than when I was growing up.

First few days were with parents, and brother Scott. I was also sick (no big surprise) with ear infection and strep throat. Lots of sleep and relaxing and not feeling one once of guilt about it!

Caught up with friends, namely my best mate Frances who also has just bought herself a house. A lot of gas bagging and catching up there. She affectionly calls my Mum her second Mum. Just for clarification, my parents have only two biological children.

As with all visits, had the traditional brunch with Julie who is like my mentor, her two girls Charlotte and Madeline, and of course Fran. We met at Uni and did some anthropology papers together when Madeline was a baby - she is now almost 9. I aspire to be like Julie. She puts her children first, studied when they were younger. Now with the girls at school, she lectures part time at T col, teaches a Year 12 Chemistry class at Columba College. She seems to balance everything wonderfully, and I hope that I can do that eventually.

Brown haired Charlotte - 10 and Red haired Madeline -8 are well brought up girls. Each one has their favourite in Fran and I. Charlotte sticks with me, while Madeline is with Frances. The girls call me Laugh-a-lot (dont know why ;) ) and Frances so serious. Frances once gave them the talk on how to find the ideal man, and who to stay away from. I couldnt stop laughing, while Fran used a dead pan face the whole time. Brunch is always a lot of fun....and after that there were even more people that wanted to meet the young man who has made me very happy :) Good times. Next....onto Frans.

Casa de Julia

2006-07-07T07:51:00.000+12:00

Just adding to last entry - Pictures of Julias house remembering it is her first house. I say awesome purchase and really warm (heatpump). Why Julia is holding grapes???? Lunch maybe, but a great random posey photo :)

Christchurch briefly

2006-07-07T07:27:00.000+12:00

Driving to Christchurch I was still sleep and had to have a another nap along the way...glad I took my polar fleece blanky with me, its great. More great scenary, but one thing was missing. Not a sign of a Wild Bean Cafe to be seen. I had to settle for coffee from a bakery in Amberley which was really just hot chocolate milk :(
Arrived in Christchurch to stay with my friend Julia for the night and have a big catch up. She has recently bought her own house, very grown up. I would be very happy with her house as a first one, its awesome as can see from the pics (Next blog)
Went for a bit of a drive and ended up in Sumner, one of my favourite places - more in Summer I have to add but was still beautiful. The pictures say more than I can. Christchurch is a very pretty city, lots of green and gardens and apart from the smog layer generally pleasant.

Next stop home....

Une, deux, trois copines!

2006-07-06T14:30:00.000+12:00

Just a short note....I liked this picture of the three of us so am posting it on. I would like to call it the 3 amigos (or 3 stooges.....this could depend on who is looking at it) These are two of my top peeps in Welly, and are just like siblings...in a good way :)

The Journey

2006-07-06T08:34:00.000+12:00

Hey Hey Hey its holidays..... (I realise it was meant to say Fat Albert...but its holidays :) )

The first week is not far from over - I have left wild and windy Wellington and have ventured home to good ol' Dunners for a break.

Thought I may use this as a little diary of whats gone down so far...not much really, but here goes.

The Road trip

I left home for the ferry at 12.20 am on Sunday morning. Realising I had to fill up with petrol, I drove to my local BP. Thought a Wild Bean was on the cards but they had run out of milk (what the hell???). Also made a note to self, not to go there sober at that time of night. The petrol station was filled with drunk teenagers, boy racers (one of which I almost backed into..he he) and other beings Im sure only come out at night. Its a bit scary there on a cold winters night!

Anyway, made my way to the ferry and waited in line for an hour after checking in...a beautiful night, and very calm..made me happy. Im not the most sea worthy.

Finally making it onto the ferry I got out of the car armed with book and blanky in the effort that I may sleep. No such luck. I observed many people. People are very interesting in the early hours of the morning, especially children who really should be asleep. One child continually walked past mumbling "I'm tired, I'm tired." If he was a teenager I swear he would have been stoned. Another mother followed her kids around and lay down on the floor trying to sleep while they played. The kids would then move and she groggily followed them. There was also the guy who kept waking up his girlfriend while the soccer was on (I think he was bored),, she was none too impressed. Oh, and there were the three brothers who thought the ferry was a wrestling ring. Reminded me of my brother and I somewhat. To be honest not a lot going on
on the ridiculously early morning ferry but did get to watch the football :)

Docked at about 5am and set off to Christchurch for the first pit stop. I now realised why you should pull over when you are tired. Almost fell asleep a couple of times, so had to have wee naps at random rest areas. Had had about 3 hours sleep in the last 24 hours. It got lighter and found there was a lot of ice and snow once I hit the Kaikoura coast. I only did a rally slide once which I was impressed about. Highlight of the coast - seal colony, the beautiful views, and the snow capped mountains.

Next stop Christchurch........

The old man is snoring!

2006-06-22T12:18:00.000+12:00

A few other careers

Storm chaser (like on twister)
Forensic scientist
Ice cream taster (and chocolate :) )

Its raining and raining and did I mention its raining!

After my last exam last night, I went home hoping to have a nice long relaxing bath. But not to be, there was no water. Apparently a water main had burst taking out the whole street - yippee. Now the house is freezing - there was no water, and I was just waiting for the lights to go out. Luckily they didnt, but made you realise how much water you actually use. The only bonus coming from the night was that Hurricane wasnt there - always looking for the good points :) I just want to move out of my flat and the urge increases daily.

On to positive things I thought I would list some things I like and make me happy :) - slightly censored

1. Laughing

2. Hugs

3. Freshly baked bread, or the smell that comes from the tip top factory at night time.

4. The beach in summer

5. Swimming

6. Having time to lose myself in a book for hours

7. Storms, love storms!

8. Nice surprises

9. Thoughtfulness of others to me through their actions that show they care enough to take time to do something I will appreciate.

10. A new pair of shoes :)

3.

2006-06-18T22:08:00.000+12:00

Two weeks to go.......another exam looms......reports have to be finished.....internal assessments need to be marked....the list goes on.

My body is starting its winding down process as the term comes to an end. I would like to delay this for about a week....too much to do this week. I need to be up and atom (its atom ant :) ) for Wednesday for my anatomy exam. This should be the one I cane...so much to learn. I do know some parts of the anatomy better than others though....no comments needed there ;)

Why am I studying some may ask...well at the end of last year, I wasnt at the best place in my life. I didnt know if teaching was for me anymore, and through my personal trainer had taken an interest in sports nutrition. Ive been accepted into a post grad diploma in community nutrition, but this year started a Diploma in Sports Studies. Now this year I changed schools and I love teaching again, however Im not sure if I want to do it all my life, and am keeping options open. Ideally I would like to teach part time, and work the other half in sports nutrition....anyway see what the future brings.

Throughout my life my career plans have changed. Here is a list of my prior choices:

Vet
Air Hostess
Clinical Psychologist
Marine Mammologist
Tour Guide
Archaeologist
Rally car driver (I still practice that one)
Teaching kept popping in and out as well. I remember trying to teach my brother before he even started schoool - was that a sign??
Movie reviewer
Radio DJ
Lifeguard (after watching baywatch realised that wasnt going to happen)
Animal behaviourist (I think where I work - I do this sometimes)
Zookeeper
Artist
Singer
Princess

Im sure there were others, will add them if think of them.

Brrr its cold...

A few thoughts

2006-06-13T16:55:00.000+12:00

A while since I added to this thing....I don't know what 31 was about but thats not the number ;)

The weather has turned to crap, I well and truly hate winter, actually thats not true. On Desperate Housewives last...hate means that you still care...so I am indifferent to it. I think it actually relates more to people than the seasons though. I only have two people in my life that I am indfifferent to. One was recently my Mums nurse, and apparently she passed on a hello to me via Mum. I didn't care...the hate had gone, I was indifferent! The other is someone we have nicknamed poison, perhaps there is a little hate still there, but thats more because she keeps turning up like a bad smell....anyway I digress.

Rate my teacher....what the hell. I appear on it! I thought that I would have escaped it since I had recently changed schools, but no. Three ratings so far, no comments. One good, one ok and one bad. I mentioned it in class today to my Year 10's and a kid goes "Yeah Miss, I added you." He was the nice one. He seemed a bit gutted that I didnt want to be on there. The whole concept is weird...I dont see a rate my student.com, that would be good. However I guess thats what reports are for. But what other profession does one get rated on the Internet? Rate my doctor, my dentist, my accountant, my gardner, my nanny etc....The thing is that while I hate the site (see I still care) I can't help but check it to see if there are any comments about me or my friends.

For those who dont know, I have depression/bipolar disorder. Generally most friends know, and it actually has taught me a lot about the qualities of a good friend. When I found out, I think I was harder on myself than my friends were. Very few treated me differently, and those that did I no longer work with. It seemed anytime I was upset, or grumpy, I was having a biploar moment. Truth is I was actually upset or pissed off. Bipolar generally just means going to mood extremes, and not being able to control them. I have come a long way since finding out, and I acutally think Im a better person now than before. I know myself better, can see when I go up or down, and can take the right course of action. And yes, I am on medication, but it gives me the chemicals which people without bipolar already have.
Now the highs are fun, really fun but exhausting. Its like you are live and electricity is suging through you and have no fear. They seem to come on in times of stress or lack of sleep. However with the highs, come the lows usually afterwards. Generally they are not so bad anymore, but at their worst came the worst sort of thoughts and actions. There are other symptoms including spending a lot of money and going hard or not at all. I once wrote what it was like for me as something to show people to get them to understand, however I am yet to show anyone this.
However most people cant tell. Now Im not nearly as moody. My brother said he could have told me I had it when we were teenagers :) I swear my flatmate hurricane
needs to work on her moods. She even knows she is moody, wouldnt you want to do something to help yourself. Guess thats the difference between her and me. She's away for the week, its great being home :)

Enough procrastinating, need to mark assessments.

Its cold and Im eating ice cream :)

2006-06-05T22:13:00.000+12:00

As all good things come to an end, so does a long weekend...sad isnt it knowing that if you arent a school teacher the next long weekend is labour weekend....ah well we all choose our careers.

I have my first exam on Wednesday...a little apprehensive...its been a while since Ive sat one. Ive got used to setting them and marking them. Working full time as well definitely makes things more interesting. To be a full time student again would be cool, but now I like the money too much. Course tomorrow..the loom of school is delayed for an extra day.

Dont have a lot to say here today, I should but after studying all im trying to remember are the eight components of fitness..bet you are wondering now arent you...:)

So here are 25 things about me....that will do...100 is just too many at this point!

1. Im from Dunedin, born and bred and proud.

2. Have never actually left school, went to uni, teachers college, then back to school. Could never cope with less than 12 weeks of holidays a year :)

3. I am a hoarder, you just never know when you may need something. My room is more interesting because of it...honestly!

4. My flat has wooden floors. I believe that leaving your clothes on the floor actually make a good insulator...others disagree and say i should put my clothes away!

5. I listen to angry music really really loudly in my car and sometimes people are shocked when I turn my stereo on after they get in at how loud it is....

6. I am currently entering my 'nesting' phase and have a stunning new coffee table, bookshelf and entertainment unit

7) I keep a record of all the boys I have slept with and their professions and ratings.

8) I like putting on dinner parties and cooking for others...Im the hostess with the mostess :)

9) I am a coffee addict. I buy Wild Bean 4-5 times a week. Im trying to cut down.

10) Ive had personal trainers called Bud Slickers and Paris.

11) Threw a whiteboard marker at a kid last year. Missed the kid I was aiming at and hit another in the head...I cried.

12) I also had an accident with sodium causing burns to three kids faces. They are ok now.

13) I got alcohol poisoning 2 years ago and had to get an injection in my bum for it. I have not drinken tequila since.

14) I swear by ZENGO as a pep start to your morning.

15) I once ran away from home when I was four...to school (Yes I am actually nuts!)

16) I get birthday cards from my dog - she signs it with a pawprint, even sometimes throws in a lotto ticket or instant kiwi

17) I made sherbet with my students once, then proceeded to start a sherbet fight - I lost and looked like a ghost.

18) I have 7 ear piercings, 1 belly button piercing and a dolphin on my lower back

19) I first got drunk when 14 in a woolshed with friends. Passed out drunk outside on the stairs and proceeded to throw up the rocket fuel I had consumed. I dont remember a lot about that night.

20) I won an art competition at Intermediate for drawing the Alexandra clock on the hill. I like to draw when I can, very therapeutic.

21) I have a strange interest in the Royal Family - seemed normal until I said it out loud.

22) I get offended when people dont make the effort to come to my birthday.

23) I played rugby for a year at school. Mum refused to watch me.

24) I have a giant head and look ridiculous in most hats, either like a fisherman or a traindriver.

25) I look at my group of friends as if they are a troop of monkeys, observing who has the various roles. I am the matriarch. Ed believes my friends are my harem :)

Right thats all for now....Im sure there will be more to come in future :)

Oh there is a funny one my flatmate picked up. I talk to animals on tv especially puppies or anything cute saying hello puppy, aww arent you cute. Lianne pointed out they they wont talk back to me......

When does an orgasm become a disease???

2006-06-01T22:07:00.000+12:00

What the hell? Just watching 20/20 to see that women suffer from an excess of sexual arousal and often have to bring themselves to orgasm in order to release the pressure. Others just have them come on all of a sudden...wow. Imagine that..teaching away then oh oh oh grabbing the desk as one hits....not the ideal situation. Could see how that would be an issue. Kids notice everything and just wouldnt let that go. I mean I laugh inappropriately at the best of times in front of the kids.....and they dont forget!

One more day and then a long weekend....cannot wait! Sleep in...I love sleeping and dozing. A perfect morning is being cosy in bed with your boyfriend, raining outside and you dont need to get out of bed at all. Oh and getting breakfast in bed..nice!

The daunting thought of studying also is present. First exam is only a week away now....I think I was starting to approach burnout. No sleep, wired, incoherant (more than usual). Ended up crashing for 4 hours and decided to take today off. Coffee with friend after school, then hanging with friends tonight over a pot of the green stuff (tea that is) Always fun...sharing dilemas, thoughts, asking advice and of course good gossip the way only good friends can do it. Always a time I look forward to and a place I can totally be myself and they expect nothing less :)

Good times :)

Money money money

2006-05-30T20:53:00.000+12:00

Ok, Ive just finished watching the Apprentice watching a world I will possibly never know. The contestants on that programme are slick - smart clothes, great hair and say all the right lines. That doesnt quite happen in my world. In my profession, clothes are alright, by the end of the day hair has the frizzy frazzled, and I have spent my day shouting, laughing inappropriately at rude words, and now have to study for uni exams as well as do work for school. The Trump life seems grand....but not sure how satisfying it would be for me. Of course the money part all good :)

Now on to other things....what is acceptable P.D.A in front of your flatmates?

When is it appropriate to suggest they get a room?

Dont get me wrong I love PDA for me, but I think maybe Im more tactful (ha ha) infront of others. It doesnt help I cant stand my flatmate and her boyfriend is a cradle snatching gimp. I do feel when you are the boyfriend/girlfriend you should be trying to impress the fellow flatmates to be accepted. I also think he is a selective mute.....only talks to her. My other flatmates boyfriend is cool. Can hold a conversation, nice etc...its not that hard. The secret is get along with the flatties...all good...no dramas. The gimp has not learnt this....it will make life hard for him...yeah I can be a bitch...but who didnt know that already. The cold war continues...bring on the end of flatting!!!!

Long weekend coming up...cant wait...no flatties!

Anyway Im procrastinating from studying....some things never change. What do they say about wisdom comes with age???? he he

Peachy :)

2006-05-29T20:32:00.000+12:00

A monday is over again..this one seems faster than many others.

Man its so cold....not a winter person at all.

Where did summer go?

Actually to be honest im cold on the outside but warm and fuzzy on the inside. I cant help but smile all the time. My students are like circus animals at times and today it doesnt bother me. School just isnt the priority it once was. I have to say I have my teaching passion back..thank god! Even today I can put up with my hurricane flatmate...she is in a good mood it seems...must be in the eye again. Not to worry....Im sure the storm will return and I will once again want to key her boyfriends car. I really am not a psycho, nuts maybe, a dork (been called this a couple of times tonight already), but everyone has their more 'interesting' side :)

Im in a happy place right now, everything is peachy. Im in love. And it just gets better.
Little did I think I could feel so comfortable with one person, and while thinks Im a dork, he loves me for it. Im in a chinese restaurant last night, and said something along the lines of liking dim sums, and all that crap...then basically said I wasnt the most pc of people. He responds with I knew I loved you for some reason...awww....its just the little things, the conversations, hugs, kisses, ordering for me amongst many other things...I could go on but that is private ;)

Anyway....all good.....all very good :)